It’s resolution time again. Trying to decide what we want to change in the upcoming year.

I’ve never been much into resolutions.

I prefer commitments.

Most of the time we make resolutions with ourselves which are iffy. We have a tendency to make excuses and our resolutions are broken all too soon.

Commitments on the other hand tend to be more binding, involving others.

Several years ago a friend and I committed to meet every morning for a 3 to 5 mile walk/run. Only conflicts in schedule or emergencies prevented the lacing up of our sneaks and hitting the road.

We’ve stuck to our routine and both of us have benefited a great deal. She is a cancer survivor, 25 years younger than me.

I’ve had my own health troubles. Two bouts with meningitis, and surviving cancer after enduring 43 radiation treatments, all in the space of a year.

I know beyond the shadow of a doubt that increased body strength has aided in my recovery process as much as it has for my friend.

Our mornings have been a real source of physical strength for her and in return she does not hesitate to push me.

Commitments have made the difference.

In these challenging days we shouldn’t cling to easily broken resolutions. They often prove to be houses built on sand.

We need a stick to it plan with positive follow through to not only bolster our own strength, but to encourage and strengthen those who love and rely on us.

One of the first public acts of Jesus was to form a commitment group called disciples; a group that provided a source of strength for him and for them. During their time together they faced unimaginable challenges. What bound them together was a firm vow to support the ministry of Jesus.

Commitment.

Their promises to each other should be an example for us all, as we mull over what we’d like to change and improve during the New Year.