PROMISE I'll be back soon... my fever (urgh!!) IS slowly abating and plans are all now set for Mother's Big Day next Wednesday... so perhaps time to chill... :)) LOL K xx
COPING
Leave skirtings undusted
and the silver to tarnish.
Pack away best china
and forget about doileys.
Let the plants all wither in their pots
and the washing stay out all night in the rain.
Take a break from prescriptions
and from feeding the stray at the back door.
Allow rings to accumulate
on the glass-top table
and bags to gather under your eyes.
Go without a petticoat
and give Guest-embroidered towels
to the nearest Dogs' Home.
Wear that awful perfume,
eat a sandwich in the street.
Or maybe just hang a sign in your window,
saying: "Now Motherless",
or "Homelessness Lives Here".
Such a touching poem, brought tears to my eyes. I had an english teacher whose surname was Burnside, made me think of him as I saw your name. God bless. Baz
This one knocked me out Kate, I can really relate to these words, I lost my husband, and then 11 months later my only son...time passed and I found someone, and he was killed in an automoble accident...you do learn to cope, it is not easy but you do learn, and you go on. My deepest condolences to you...I am sure God must have another plan for you, just as he did for me.
love and peace, Carole
My deepest condolences, Kate. My mother chose to leave this world well before her time (at least, in my view); so I can relate to your grief. Love, peace, healing and strength to you,
I am totally floored by all your comments, guys, and your personal testimonies cut me to the quick... Your own pain seems somehow so much more genuine than my own at the moment - is this normal??!! Without seeming to appear too harsh, I have to come clean and say that part of this poem is about sharing a good old joke with my Mum... in that she was always so totally pristine and smart - always the Lady - and I am somewhat a wreck by comparison!! :)) She'd be laughing!! Thank you ALL for your love and concern, but please be assured that, at the moment, I am coping just "fine"! :)) I am just sad for those of you whose stories are so heartrending, bless you xxxxxxxxxxooooxxxxxxxx K
I would interject "fatherless" where you've written "motherless". Seemed the very ground under my feet gave way when we lost him. Puts things in proper perspective and this poem screams this inwardly. Wish I could reach out and hug you, Kate. But you know whose arms hold you. I won't tell you to be strong. He'll do that for you...
So sorry to hear of your loss Kate! I know
you are strong and have a big heart. I wish
there was something a person can say but I
don't know what it is.
OMG Kate I know this feeling of just let go and become the Ghost in the house....one that does not care come rain or sunshine. I lost both my parents and my litle girl in between...so I am totally homeless too sis. But I can tell you this.....take your time and let your emotions show dear girl or you just hurt yourself by holding back. I know I did it and today I pay the penalty for keeping it cropped up inside.
Now take this advice and feed it to the guests and say shut-up I need my time to say goodbye!!
You are in my prayers Kate. And be strong and just let it out!!
having lost three mothers in my life i totally empathize with your feelings of dismay ... rejoice over your fond memories, they may help you cope your feelings of loss ... be well, Kate ...
Sad Lady - You are so vulnerable right now, and we want to do something that will cushion things for you. As you know, it is a process which you may want to go through, constantly thinking that your Mum loves you in all that you are. She is now,you. On Wednesday, you will do well, and soon, the bad dreamtime will clear, and you will go on living... in the manner she would expect. Our blessings extend through your mother's Service... and beyond. - Bill
Coping and adjusting is never easy, take your time and be sure that we all will keep you in our hearts and prayers, while we look forward to your return.
Birgit and Roger
You are ever in my thoughts and prayerx, dear Kate! We'll be waiting for your return; take your time, and know you have friends all over the world who love you. God be with you during this sad time; may He give you the strength, courage, and mercy to get through the hard days ahead!
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))), love, and many prayers,
As always, your friend in America, Karen Lynn in Texas. :( >tears <
Kate
Just make sure your right and ready as Karla says below....:)
We'll all be here, just waiting for your safe arrival...:)
Take care of yourself in the meantime !
Blessings
Peter
My heart breaks for you...but I understand. That last stanza leaves me shattered. Please take care of yourself, come back when YOU'RE ready and not a minute before. We'll be here for you.
(((HUGS))), love and continued prayers, Karla. >tears <
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Wrap yourself in all those sweet memories and know that you have the support of many friends.
hugs to you,
Tami
love and peace, Carole
Regis
Love, Lin
you are strong and have a big heart. I wish
there was something a person can say but I
don't know what it is.
Now take this advice and feed it to the guests and say shut-up I need my time to say goodbye!!
You are in my prayers Kate. And be strong and just let it out!!
Love Tinka
so sad..........
but u are not motherless.......she is with you in spirit......
just a thought away.
pax
a
Birgit and Roger
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))), love, and many prayers,
As always, your friend in America, Karen Lynn in Texas. :( >tears <
Just make sure your right and ready as Karla says below....:)
We'll all be here, just waiting for your safe arrival...:)
Take care of yourself in the meantime !
Blessings
Peter
My heart breaks for you...but I understand. That last stanza leaves me shattered. Please take care of yourself, come back when YOU'RE ready and not a minute before. We'll be here for you.
(((HUGS))), love and continued prayers, Karla. >tears <