There is a difference between scare and fear to be afraid of some things is normal. To live in fear is abnormal. It can debilitate you.Fear is good when it alerts us to something, but it is not good when we let it control us. Faith is what controls fear. You must find faith in something.
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I do not know why some keep fear
While others cast theirs to the wind
There is nought that happens here
That we cannot but find a kin

The darkness sought by lovers
Disliked by those grown old
Like babes hiding undercovers
How similar our lives unfold

The fascinating cycle of life
Not to be feared if understood
Days of happiness days of strife
Birth follows death all is good

Genesis "Then God saw
everything that He made
and said that it was good"
I believe Him, and rest there

etw-2006