You have written a fine piece in the subject chosen. And you describe that feeling one feels in these situations so well. Most of us has probably been there, both feeling wronged and not knowing what we did wrong. There is hurt on both sides. For me and my husband communication is key. I remember once stopping my husband in his steps somewhere at the airport in Munich and telling him enough of this crap! I asked him to take time to think about what was going on, and then tell me, because he didn’t really know what was going on with him either. It took him about 20 minutes before figuring out what he was worried about. We could then talk it through and in another 20 minutes everything was fine, worry was gone and so was his irritation. This is our way of sorting things out and it works wonders for our marriage.

Having been in a "free-fall", my heart always goes out to "the person feeling wronged", Odin. Your words described that feeling so well. That's just the way it is! You are so real!! Write on!!

Love ya!

Jane