Children find a way to survive their transition to adulthood.

Each child may have experienced a different pain.

As an adult, the inner child is doing his/her best to avoid experiencing their childhood pains.

One adult child is avoiding the pain of criticism and being wrong.

One adult child is avoiding the pain of unmet needs.

One adult child is avoiding the pain of failure.

One adult child is avoiding the feeling of abandonment.

One adult child is avoiding the intrusion by others.

One adult child is avoiding the uncertainty of things.

One adult child is avoiding the sense of limitation.

One adult child is avoiding the sense of vulnerability.

One adult child is avoiding the feeling of separation.

Avoidance keeps us in chains.

Break the chain by embracing your avoidance.

Embrace what angers you the most!

Be driven by love not avoidance.

Copyright .2014 by Shervin Hojat