Why?
Because they can.
Because many grew up in a society where
Parents overindulged, spoiling their children
Giving them everything they wanted
Not allowing the child appreciate what the
Parents could afford to give without going into debt.
Thus robbing the child of the "dreaming, wishing and wanting"
That teaches patience and eventual gratitude.
Many were not taught to respect their parents,
Their teachers or the elderly grandparents
Who cared for them trying to teach them
Right from wrong, growing weary in the effort
The good book says "spare the rod and spoil the child"
"Oh, not my child" some mothers protest....
"She is perfect and never does anything wrong."
Some parents overlooked the bad grades,
The bullying on the playground, taunting
Their teachers and the temper tantrums
That last until they get their way
The child grows, and becomes jaded
No longer content with the victories of
Their younger years. Now they push the envelope
Further and further to the edge needing...
New highs to quench their thirst.
A psychological evaluation?
NO! My child doesn't need that
We'll just talk to him and all will be fine.
Guns? Why not, junior needs to practice
To protect himself, his friends, his family.
Drinking? There's no harm in a beer or two
Why not? Dad says, junior is a chip off
The old block, patting his son on his shoulder
Winking, he says "Boys will be boys, dont you know."
DWI's? Some moms say they were just having fun at a party
Getting his girlfriend pregnant? Some parents will send her
To an abortion clinic and then all will be forgotten.
Until the day arrives when they meet the police at
The front door, saying "Your son has just killed innocent
Children and their teachers at a local school"...
"Then he turned the gun on himself therefore ending his life."
Joy L. Hale
Copyrighted December 19th, 2012
The message is loud and clear.
Yet I can never, never, never understand America's love of firearms? It seems paradoxical to what we are told is the American dream.
I pray you are in the majority. Yet reading, Teresa, how bloody dreadful!
Makes you think!
Teresa
Joy; the subject is demanding both on writer and reader
but you handle it with maturity and sensitivity
very fine indeed
john
Love ya!
Jane
This one hit especially close to home because I am the mother of an aspie. But although she is anti-social, she is a gentle girl, not in any way violent. Violence is not part of the profile of a child or an adult with Aspergers. Aspergers is a biological neurological condition and mostly these kids are the ones bullied. So I don't understand why so many of these horrific violent acts are being done by males with the condition. There must somehow be other over-lapping mental issues, there just have to be. Oh, so upsetting. Anyway, I so agree with you about the guns, oh what on earth does anyone need a gun for! Oh, oh. So sad.
Blessings,
Christine
It hasn't changed Joy, nothing has...
Genetics or Example? Mental Defect or movies and magazines?
Unfortunately, it is an individual not situational...
Some of the most famous individuals (good people) came from
such homes, while MANY that came from "good" homes went on
to be killers... John Wayne Gacy, Jeffrey Dahmer, Ed Gheen
the Ghoul and born in 1404, Gilles de Rais is the "predecessor" to the modern serial killers. Rais was a military captain, which was led by St. Joan of Arc, who shortly after began his killing spree...
What needs to be done is more alertness to the signs
of "individuals"...
You cannot blame the home or the way many were raised
as this is moot... It is a societal thought and not
valid although wonderful to think it could be the cure...
It is a wonderful write and a wonderful thought you are
a good soul...
I was raised in a home of violence, I was taught to use
a gun, I watched as others beat on others and alcohol was
there and available with no thought about how it would
affect me.
But dear, I am a loving soul, giving, kind, and caring :)
I am there to help everyone and did so even as a small
child... Believe me if the theory were true and it's not
I would have been as that young man who killed those
beautiful children, his parents and himself in the end.
Love and Light
Lily
taking..written with validating
truth that has been lost in these
times..asking ourselves if any of
today will ever make sense as the
tears fall down our face .. or
happens for a reason in God's plan
until His time of revealing...
Lady Vivian
Regis
budd
Peace, love and blessings,
John Michael