You need to look at the whole picture before you tell someone they should be thankful.

Don’t whisper, they can not hear you
Nor scream, for they simply will not care
Don’t smile prettily or act proper
Most of all do not cry, don’t you DARE

Wear your scars proudly
And never drop your head
Don’t hide behind hair or make up
Remember you should be happy, you aren’t dead

Live long enough to see them gone
Give the universe the “bird”
And always remember this simple fact
It’s better to kill with the written word