This book is FOR LADIES ONLY!  I targeted the ladies because I believe that we have the greatest issue with low self-esteem. You see, men are competitors and are risk-takers. When things don’t work out for them, they simply brush off the dust and call a new play (football). But women, when things don’t work out for us, we become emotional and begin to question our intellect and doubt our intuition (which is usually right)! Our solutions are to either curl up with a pint of Haagen-Dazs™ and/or a box of chocolates, or we call our “girls”, who are currently or have previously experienced some emotional trauma (some which are still carrying the baggage), who somehow have become the “experts”. These “sistahs” bombard you with the “What You Should Do’s”, “What I Wouldn’t Do’s”, and “What You Don’t Have to Take’s”. Whatever the case, our self-esteem drops to an all time low and we carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. This straight shooting “girl talk” memoir encourages you to rid yourself of toxic characteristics (the weight), “going-no-where” people (the load), and insignificant issues that tear down the fiber of your life (the baggage).