As an all around person creatively speaking that is~often wonder...where are the personal self-respected writers there used to be. Seems to me people used to care what they exposed and what they kept private...but then one might say I am a bit victorian to a certain extent (I’m not though).
There is a difference between sharing and spilling your guts~oh yeah not to mention taking a public crappy dump. Or the old saying airing your dirty laundry. Wonder if it has anything to do with the behaviors of celebrities these days?
On another note and last but I am sure not least~ smut verses romanticism, sensuality or sexuality. Smutt is smutt face it; smutt is not sexy publically in my opinion for it is just what it is called stinking smutt!
Remembering back in the day when woman used to care about self-image and what they exposed and what they keep private, not to mention vice versa for men. Being upbeat and or modern, cool or straight does not mean disrespectfulness, unfortunately I guess it is just simply out of fashion.