This has been my experience with quite a few friends and family. If you experienced better then feel blessed.

Trying to be nice,
is like trying to drink ice.
You might get choked,
before your feelings get stroked.
Most aren't use to kindness,
they suffer from stupid blindness.

Be nice to some,
they try to use & take from.
They view nice as being weak,
until they finally see you break.
Once you get mean and rude,
they get an attitude.

As long as you were azz kissing,
they never want to see you missing.
Show up tough and strong,
then they don't want to belong.
After the break up,
they tell everyone you were corrupt.
They play the blame game,
try to dirty up your name
to cover up their
stupidity and shame.

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