A new portrait of My Old Dad
I’ve seen some things I’ve never seen before concerning my old Dad,
Things I didn’t notice more until his health got really bad
Things which weren’t apparent, till I helped him with his kegs,
sagging skin hanging loosely on extremely skinny legs
His feet could do with a pumice scrub; the nails are gnarled and thick
It’s not hard to sum it up why he hobbles with his walking stick
He now can’t shave to improve his image, an accident’s one of his constant fears
He's frightened of a fatal slippage, hairs up his nose match those in his ears
And I know he used to pride himself on how meticulously he used to dress
Now he doesn’t care if a bit of wee runs down his pants and makes a mess
While he’s still got some mettle, it’s still a blessing that’s for sure
But he’s stubborn now and forgetful, and getting befuddled more and more
If he doesn’t answer his phone I then, keep trying with anxious urgency
he’s practically as deaf as a stone; it's when, he could've suffered some emergency
Reaching this ill-health stage, I can’t blame his disposition
He’s made it to a ripe old age as though this old boy's on a mission
to live long and prosper, so the saying goes, though preferably, one hopes, in one piece
But various ailments do oppose the quality of this, life’s temporary lease
You see this man cut down, once fit and strong, when life’s clock has ebbed away his youth
And he doesn’t look like he has very long, and that's the ugly agonising truth
And equally sad I see the slow but steady, and unforgiving cruel decline
With one foot in the grave already, by Mother Nature’s flawed design
(Mind you, he’s still got his cheeky grin; a better look with his dentures in)
Still, while the years might rob this man of all the dignity that he once had
Happy childhood memories aren’t erased
(Even though I might feel he’s been replaced)
He might be old and frail and sad, but underneath it all, he’s still my Dad
Talked to an old girlfriend the other day and she told me that her father at 106 recently went with her to a casino and won the jackpot on the slot machines. A very modest and humble man, I don't think he ever had the characteristic of being, "strong and proud." Perhaps the source of his longevity.
Ron
But I can say with confidence that he has an angel for a daughter.