I'm looking at it from the viewpoint of one who has been married to the same woman for over 61 years. I know that to succeed in an enduring love takes not only dedication and commitment but trust, understanding and forgiveness.
None of us is perfect, and that includes your spouse that at one time in your infatuation stage you thought approached "perfect." But if we trust our own feelings and judgment, then we shouldn't second-guess our prior judgment in choosing a mate at a time when a personal challenge arises and you discover (again) that your mate isn't perfect either.
If you harbor the concept of "growing old together"--which I highly recommend because I've lived it--then you must live by the lesson taught in your "Love's Renewal."
You know and understand and have lived drama and personal challenges. Your "Love's Renewal" allows us a unique opportunity to learn by someone's life-changing experience.
Thank you for sharing, Dear Heart. This work is a treasure.
I love the flow of this, Micki... ...and the theme is completely "up my alley" except that, in my case, I really did nothing to bring on the "rift." Anyway, I can relate and thus your verses speak right to my soul. Thank you for sharing. Love and best wishes,
I'm looking at it from the viewpoint of one who has been married to the same woman for over 61 years. I know that to succeed in an enduring love takes not only dedication and commitment but trust, understanding and forgiveness.
None of us is perfect, and that includes your spouse that at one time in your infatuation stage you thought approached "perfect." But if we trust our own feelings and judgment, then we shouldn't second-guess our prior judgment in choosing a mate at a time when a personal challenge arises and you discover (again) that your mate isn't perfect either.
If you harbor the concept of "growing old together"--which I highly recommend because I've lived it--then you must live by the lesson taught in your "Love's Renewal."
You know and understand and have lived drama and personal challenges. Your "Love's Renewal" allows us a unique opportunity to learn by someone's life-changing experience.
Thank you for sharing, Dear Heart. This work is a treasure.
Richard
Regis
It's hard to let a liar back into one's heart. Wouldn't you agree?
Ron
"We are no longer who we were"
Kindred & Whippoorwill blessings,
Sage