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Grow some Empathy

by Elisabeth Barstowe — Read all 441 poems by Elisabeth Barstowe

My daughter is not feeling well, and the way she's getting helped from so called 'professionals' is nothing less than horrifying. I've lived through posttraumatic stress and it is not easy to turn your life around. It takes a lot of help from professionals whit a lot of patience, skilled in removing feelings of shame instead of planting those feelings in their patient. This writing is a blend of what she expressed she's feeling and what I was ging through so many years ago.





Wednesday, January 11, 2023


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Out of sorts, blinded, bonkers
So many ways to say that a
person is not feeling well
That a person is going through
their own personal hell
Deep in darkness they'll be
spending their days as well
as their nights.
Living through their deepest
darkest frights

Then who is the complete
void of empathy or shame
that says that the person
in such a deep, deep pain,
can simply toughen up,
grow some character?

If it was that easy no one
would feel anxiety, pain,
or spending their nights 
trying to sleep in vain.
with monsters behind their
eyelids, clawing out their 
eyes seem the only way
to live through another day.

It's a frail existance where
dark feelings of guilt and
shame raise their ugly heads
over and over again.
As a helper you need to
thread with causion 
to avoid casting blame.

Show empathy,
show understanding
and most of all
show care
show that
you will always
be there.



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Reviewed by Ronald Hull
Reviewed on January 12, 2023
You have described mental anguish so vividly that someone like me who doesn't generally have mental problems, can understand what it is like to have them. I feel sad that your daughter is going through something similar to what you had to go through.

My physical condition, I believe has made me more empathetic towards others' problems. I had trouble, not sleeping, but in my sleep last night, thinking that all thousand poems or so that I have written were being opened, one at a time, as I was turned. Thinking I was still lying on all of them and it was very uncomfortable, thinking they all had to be removed and put in their proper place of my computer. It was a bizarre situation that may give me some insight into how mental thoughts and pain turn physical. What it must be like with severe trauma coming back again and again.

Ron

Reviewed by John Herlihy
Reviewed on January 12, 2023
Your final stanza sums up the problem beautifully, there is no other way.

Reviewed by Richard Cederberg
Reviewed on January 11, 2023
I believe it's one of life's most persistent and urgent questions: What good are we doing for others? I believe caring produces courage. And the more courage we have, the more we can genuinely care for others. I relate to the spirit of this. Well wishes for your daughter. r


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