A woman’s desire
To embrace her husband,
Must be proceeded,
By accepting the reality,
That she must embrace herself first,
Completely, Unconditionally,
It is only then,
She can receive fully,
The comforting embrace,
Of her husband
A husband’s desire
To embrace his wife,
Must be proceeded,
By accepting the reality,
Of embracing her essence,
Mind ,heart, personality, flaws,
Accepting fully, unconditionally,
Her uniqueness,
Her individuality,
It is only then,
He can give fully,
That embrace
To his wife,
Who now knows,
Deep in her heart,
That she was hugged and embraced,
Even prior to his approaching her,
So that the physical union,
Is an expression and manifestation,
Of what was there all along
For he has learned,
How to hold her,
Completely,
He takes her into himself,
And she feels herself,
Being accepted and loved,
Without reservation,
Without judgement,
Pure love.
To embrace a wife
That is already embraced,
Is the greatest gift,
A husband can give,
To his wife,
Whom God loves.
To touch her,
Before she is touched.
A woman who embraces herself first
Is ready to accept
The love of her husband
And to feel herself held by him
Way before
He is physically holding her
Pure love.
Most people are unable to accept themselves completely and unconditionally. They want others do that first.
Shervin