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Unrealistic man and woman
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Another good poem about a man and woman in a unbalanced, unstable relationship having unrealistic expectations up until the marraige is destroyed

 

 

 

Unrealistic man and woman

By Dr. Shalomim Y. HaLAhawi

©2009

What’s the worth of a woman in whom has betrayed  all your trust

 

The value of a metal that eventually turns into rust

She has constantly lied, and kept secrets from your knowledge

Laid in the bed with other men as she picked from their wallet

Played you for a fool as if she was the most faithful by your side

Premeditated lust and adultery, was the secrets she would hide

Never would have told you, had she not been exposed

20 years from now, the lie would still have been told

Claims she loves you so much, and realized she made a mistake

But love wasn’t an issue in the bed with the man she lay

You  never get  closure, don’t know the name nor ever seen this man before

your life just put at risk for secret sins behind closed doors

he gets off so easily, walks away with no details of who he is

he could be in your face at anytime, for days or months or years

She expects to be on top as your goddess, as if she created your soul

She talks back, runs her mouth, and rebels on things she’s been told

Shes slack on education, clumpsy in using her  intellect

Waisting the money you invested to bring out her talents at best

She loves to be out-going but rarely picks up and reads the bible

And then she expects you, to trust her as reliable

You warn her of what you don’t like and whats tearing the relationship apart

But she continues down the same road, as if she has no mind and heart

She thinks she can answer you,  any way she wants to

She will get the last word out, doesn’t care about disrespecting you

She argues with you constantly and always try to prove you wrong

Doesn’t realize she’s losing you and it wont be before too long

Her attitude and responses violates the ethical traditions of every ethnic culture

Picks at your emotions to explode like a vulture

She yells at the children as if they cannot learn so well

But they learned it from their mother, but that’s not something to tell

She doesn’t respect your wishes, doesn’t do much to please you

She does exactly what your ex-lovers did, in order just to hurt you.

Her mouth makes you sick, the source of much problems, the main cause

She doesn’t seem to care, its whats going to cause her own downfall

She acts like child when she cant have her way

You question her about her issues that’s when she has nothing to say

She will deny everything she does, that makes the marriage falter

It makes a man feel hopeless and began to not even bother

She carelessly gains weight and your advice she doesn’t listen

Undermining her  health when both are supposed be holistic

Yet No matter what you say, she expects a perfect marriage

But wants that perfection while she still carrys all her former baggage

You sleep in the same bed, but the passion is not there

Sex with no love, touch with no care

She pushes you away , especially when she’s sleep

You ask youself, “is this the woman for me to keep?”

You ask yourself everyday, whats the purpose , why are we are here?

You are soo stressed and unhappy, but you dare to shed a tear

You pray for another woman, to perhaps come and sweep you away

You look out the window for her coming each and every day

You feel you need a strink, to help you solve all of this

But dam you forget, you are a trained psychologist

A strink needing a strink, what else can the world endure

Can a marriage as this be perfected, nobody can tell for sure?

The good she trys to do is side-swiped by  the mounting bad

Happiness is a theory, because the household is sad

How can you ever forgive her, the sins she committed against you

When the things that make you unhappy, she continues on to do.

Yet you try to hold your peace and pray thing work out for the best

You continue to be a husband and father to past the patience test

But the renewal of the marriage is coming very near

The closer to the date, the more you sweat with fear

You know you love this woman, some how deep down inside

But don’t think that you can handle another 7 year hell of a ride

You have enough problems, some issues with your health

Don’t need added drama of the issues of somebody esle

You feel if she has deliberately betrayed you, then she can do it again

You don’t want to deal with being hurt again by someone else’s sin

So all the problems have mounted up, decisions must be made

Soon you must face to renew or just let the relationship fade

But she doesn’t know your true feelings and neither you of she

For  communication between the two is faint, a misty destiny

Yet she talks of living together forever, but nothing of things that should change

She hasn’t shown submission as a woman by nature ordained

So a counselor can be an option, but your’re sluggish to seek to hire

Having someone else tell them what to do, is something not admired

She ignores the possible consequences, of the following months a comin

But what else can be expected, when you have an unrealistic man and woman.


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