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The Real Meaning of Love
by Jeanette Cooper → (All Poetry by Jeanette Cooper)
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The Real Meaning of Love
 
I have lived a long proud life
And exhibited my share of selfishness.
It created many conflicts with people in my life
Because I “expected” rather than”gave”.
 
I talked to a bitter mother recently
Whose children never bothered to call her
Angry and defeated by their absence of love
She never called them either.
 
I heard complaints from another mother
About how selfish her child was
But the remarks came because her child
Refused to oblige her with something she wanted.
 
What is love anyway, this word frequently used so lightly,
If not casting aside all selfishness
To vicariously put oneself in another’s place
And understand they, too, experience pain and fear.
 
When I saw my child sick and needy
Self was the last thing in my mind and heart
Sadness developed and consumed me
Prayer and tears merged in my voice.
 
It was then that I learned the real meaning of love.
 
© 2008 Jeanette Cooper

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Reviewed by Jms Bell
Reviewed on November 14, 2009
PRAISE GOD, JEANETTE, THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED WHAT TRUE LOVE MEANS...CHERISH TRUE LOVE ALWAYS...IT IS STRONG YES, BUT IT IS ALSO FRAGILE AND, IF NOT PROPERLY ATTENDED TO...CAN DIE. LOVE...GOD IS LOVE...HIS LOVE FOR US WILL NEVER DIE, BUT WE CAN PUT OURSELVES IN A POSITION WHERE OUR LOVE FOR HIM DIMINISHES...THEN WE'RE IN TROUBLE. THANKS FOR SHARING THIS STRONG, ENJOYED WORK. GOD BLESS.
JOYCE * HIS INSPIRATIONS.

Reviewed by Sheila Roy
Reviewed on January 6, 2009
"Self was the last thing in my mind and heart" - this is the line that defines love the most for me. Stirring write, Jeanette.
Sheila

Reviewed by Michelle Mead
Reviewed on December 30, 2008
How right you are. I was just saying this to my Dad and stepmom this evening, and it's so true- people don't realize the gift that love is, and the short amount of time in which we are able to share it here on earth. Great message, Jeanette. Happy New Year-Michelle

Reviewed by Karen Vanderlaan
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
there is so much depth and wisdom to this--there is nothing my children could do to turn me away from them--i am not always happy with them, but the love is stronger than all other emotions--my mother and younger sister (the one who is so sick) do not get along and though her daughter is so sick, she has not been able to reconcile--it is so very sad

Reviewed by Paul Berube
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Excellent write Jeanette. Happy New Year and God bless.

Reviewed by John Turner
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Jeanette, this is a story of life in our day. I am 79 and rarly hear from my 4 children. I aslo have a number of Grandchildren and several greats, but no call.
I'm sure you hear from many of the children you have taught. By the way I am attending adult education classes I would like to get a ged before my 81st birthday.

Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Love goes both ways, Jeanette: have to love in order to be loved. Powerful lessons in heartbreaking lines: well done.

(((HUGS))) and love, Karla.

Reviewed by Richard Orey
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Acting with dedication and devotion in putting the interests of one you care about before your own interests is a telltale sign of love. The demonstrations we see every day of a mother's dedicated and devotional love stem not from a conscious decision of the mind but the caring concern of the heart. You summarize it well in your lines, "What is love anyway...if not casting aside all selfishness."

In "The Real Meaning of Love" you share your deep understanding and wisdom for the betterment of us all.

Richard

Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Great message in this, Jeanette; excellent!~

(((HUGS))) and much love, your friend in Tx., Karen Lynn. :(

Reviewed by George Carroll
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Trials mold our lives on earth and bring our true love to the surface, for it's then we forget self. Marvelous poetry with a stark message.

Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Jeannette,

What a wonderful explanation of how we through the word "love" around and never think of its meaning. You show some fine examples through your work.

mary

Reviewed by 000 000 (Reader)
Reviewed on December 28, 2008
Very well thought out verse. Many define love..for what it will do for them.
Unconditional love will only come from GOD!


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