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Only When Needed
by Jeanette Cooper → (All Poetry by Jeanette Cooper)
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New Year brings back gentle memories of love and family.

 

Only When Needed
 
Verbalizing feelings and emotions
Wasn’t a way of life for my loving family
Or other farm families whose lives
Revolved around carving out a living
From the plowed sweet-scented soil of the earth.
 
“I love you,” wasn’t a frequently used statement
But I sensed and felt its presence
In a hundred different ways,
As my mama and daddy strove to give
Me and my siblings the best they could.
 
Mama claimed she liked the chicken back and wing
As we reached for the fleshy chicken pieces at mealtime,
Never realizing that Mama’s unselfish love
Nurtured her willingness to go without
Just so her children could have larger portions.
 
Then there was daddy, a man of few words
His energy burned from worry when the rain didn’t fall,
Fearing the crops would not survive or flourish
Troubled that his family would starve
Without the funds from the sale of the crops to feed them.
 
Talk was about work and livelihood
The here and now of the world as it related to us.
Love was inherently as much a part of life as breathing
And expressed in all the things done for each other
While words were used like special tools
Only when needed.
 
© 2009 Jeanette Cooper

 


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 Reviews of "Only When Needed"
Reviewed by Mary Patterson
Reviewed on January 12, 2009
A deeply touching write about your parents and family life. Its always hard when a family depends on the crops , the sale of vegtables , live stock , ect to make ends meet and to exist.. The love was there tho and thats what really counted.. Thanks fro sharing a bit of your life with us....M

Reviewed by Theresa Koch
Reviewed on January 10, 2009
“I love you,” wasn’t a frequently used statement
But I sensed and felt its presence
In a hundred different ways,
As my mama and daddy strove to give
Me and my siblings the best they could.

This is so my family~thanks for this

Reviewed by Sheila Roy
Reviewed on January 6, 2009
Jeanette,
I would have loved to grow up this way. Thank you for sharing this glimpse of your past. Love and Hugs,
Sheila

Reviewed by Michelle Mead
Reviewed on January 5, 2009
God, this is so damn good. Great narrative and snapshot of your family life on the farm. Extremely well-written, Jeanette. Blessings, Michelle

Reviewed by Joyce Bowling
Reviewed on January 2, 2009
A touching and beautiful write my friend that I too can relate to. Our family was strong farming survivors whom we knew loved each other but for the most part it was through and by expressions that we knew and could feel the strong love and bond that held us together. I recall seeing my mom turn away food to ensure that we had enough, also to be happy to have the heel from a loaf of bread to make toast from...a wonderful and warm write my friend, enjoyed. I've missed everyone much...all is well in Ky. just been overwhelmed with a few projects and a new school year. It's good to be home at the den...
Blessings from Ky.
Joyce B.

Reviewed by Barbara Smith
Reviewed on January 2, 2009
Jeanette, how I could relate...I always thought my Mother was the only one that claimed she liked the wing & the back to let her family have the choice pieces...oh, the love they had for us eventhough they didn't show it with hugs, I love you, or kisses. I can often remember Mother saying, "Dad, we have to pray for rain." I learned at a ripe age rain was important to a farmer. I loved this Jeanette, it brought back so many wonderful memories for me and I'm so glad you shared it today...I needed this.

Reviewed by George Carroll
Reviewed on January 2, 2009
A farmer knew love and what made it grow for water never utters a single word but is so full of life.

Reviewed by John Turner
Reviewed on January 2, 2009
very well penned. The desperation of those days may very well return (hope not) but I fear, without the love you have expressed.

Reviewed by Mr. Ed
Reviewed on January 2, 2009
Love can truly be expressed in many other ways than words.

Reviewed on January 2, 2009
Wonderful message in this write; well done! BRAVA, Jeanette, and a Happy New Year to you; may it be your best year EVER!

(((HUGS))) and much love, your friend in Tx., Karen Lynn. ;D

Reviewed on January 2, 2009
I love you has been said so much, so often, the words seem to have lost their meaning. It's by actions that prove if it's really true: excellent message in these lines, Jeanette.

(((HUGS))) and love, Karla.


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