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Argument vs. Debate
by Jeanette Cooper → (All Poetry by Jeanette Cooper)
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Argument vs. Debate
 
Misunderstandings occur sometimes
Leaving hearts ravaged, bitter and hurt
When two people disagree and argue
Their words, blunt, short and curt.
 
Why do we do it to ourselves and others?
When there is nothing to be gained
By sharp argumentative disagreements
That leave all one’s emotions pained.
 
There is never a winner in an argument
No give or take to solve the issue at hand
No compromises to aid peaceful unity
No opportunity for each other to understand.
 
Are we that emotionally animalistic
So we are unable to have a controlled debate
Had we rather scream and yell at each other
Building grievous defenses with our words of hate?
 
Having a discussion without disruptive emotions
Is a skill that must be practiced with diligent care
By learning to use intelligence to tackle a problem
Instead of airing the emotional garbage there.
 
How much sweeter it would be
To understand and compromise in peaceful coexistence
By discussing disputes and problems rationally
Without aggravating emotional resistance.
 
© 2009 Jeanette Cooper

 


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 Reviews of "Argument vs. Debate"
Reviewed by Jms Bell
Reviewed on August 26, 2009
AGREEING TO DISAGREE WITH A GOOD DISCUSSION IS THE RIGHT WAY TO DO THINGS....NOW, IF ONLY WE CAN REMEMBER THAT(SMILE). GOOD WRITE THAT IS WRITTEN WELL. THANKS FOR SHARING AND BLESSINGS.
JOYCE * HIS INSPIRATIONS

Reviewed by annie frame
Reviewed on July 21, 2009
Brilliant poem Jeanette, thank your for sharing it and I will use your advice next time I find myself at war with words! kindest regards, annie.

Reviewed by Frances Seymour
Reviewed on April 27, 2009
Strong feelings and emotions displayed here my friend. Bravo! Blessings...Frances

Reviewed by jude forese
Reviewed on April 6, 2009
the art of polemical argument excites and stimulates without the emotional fallout of wasteful discourse ...

strong and well defined viewpoint ...

Reviewed by Mary Patterson
Reviewed on April 5, 2009
Some times responses are made in self protection and can acellerate to anger ,denial, frustration, ect. It is so much better to be able to discuss and talk things out. Some are able to do that , many aren't.Communication and understanding are so important in relationships . One must talk TO their partner, not AT their partner..Good thinking write...M

Reviewed by Sheila Roy
Reviewed on April 5, 2009
Half the trouble is that people are passionate about different things. It's when we can't see eye to eye that the frustration turns into hateful things. Marriage is a good example of these issues. Compromise goes hand in hand with debating. Love and Hugs,
Sheila

Reviewed by Dawn Anderson
Reviewed on April 5, 2009
So much wisdom and truth in your lines, Jeanette.

Reviewed by Cliff McDuffie
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
HI Jeanette. Very well said. It's sad that we waste so much talent and time with arguing.Keep 'em coming.

Reviewed by Paul Berube
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
Sad truth you write about here Jeanette. Very well done my friend. God bless.

Reviewed by Karen Vanderlaan
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
such wisdome--i agree wholeheartedly

Reviewed by Amber Moonstone
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
You have made a very clear point, Jeanette! I am a peacemaker, and try not to argue. Calm and kindness should always prevail. Great poetry, surely have missed you.
Peace, love, and light,
Amber "V"

Reviewed on April 4, 2009
Truth in these thought provoking lines, Jeanette - well done.

(((HUGS))) and love, Karla.

Reviewed by Mr. Ed
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
There is never a winner in an argument

So sadly true, and wholesome debates, with respect shown on both sides, now sadly seem to be a thing of the past.

Reviewed by Liana Margiva
Reviewed on April 4, 2009
VERY NICE!!!!!!!!!!! Liana Margiva

Reviewed on April 4, 2009
The best argument to have is with ones self. That way you'll always win. Wise words you've penned.


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