Outside the rain was pouring down in sheets.
I was soaked to the bone when I crossed the street.
I remember my grandma, on rainy days
She would resent my mother and her ways
Letting me go to school when it was pouring
"You better stay with me, it won't be boring!
What more are you going to learn?"
I felt the warmth and saw the coal stove burn.
I heard her soft and caressing voice
Grateful to her for giving me a choice
Instead of arriving wet in school
And submitting to its rigid rule
I did not see any harm in staying with her at home
As I saw myself saved from martyrdom.
I was happy to benefit from her warm presence.
And would look at her with gratefulness.
"The two of us aren't going to get bored?"
Said my dear grandmother, I adored.
"The baby birds don't leave the nest too soon"
She said while giving me sweets with a spoon.
My grandmother had never gone to school,
She knew how to love us and make us obey her rule,
This was much more enticing to me at that age
Than the alphabet, the numbers or the teacher's face
What is the good of going to school without the heart?
We have our whole life to learn and perfect any art
When our childhood ends we are out of our dreams.
We have to become serious, it seems
Our inherent abilities and desires are manifold.
But we risk being put in a lifeless mold.
I homeschooled my children in their early grades because I wanted them to love learning. We read books in front of the fire on frigid winter days and studied science in the park. I made games out of math and quizzed them for the spelling bee on long drives. They have maintained a close bond with me and their father and with each other. They still think "out of the box" but not always the way I think they should. (which doesn't seem to bother them much :-) They sometimes stray into activities and relationships that I don't approve of--but they will never forget, nor will I, the cozy days of doing school at the fireside.
Loved this poem and message... It has special meaning to me today, as the school called and asked me to send my sick son to school to take a state mandated test! It doesn't matter to them that he is sick and not thinking completely straight. It doesn't matter that he won't do as well as he could on the test. It doesn't matter that he could make others sick... just important that the school doesn't get a bad grade...
When I told my husband of the phone call he responded that I should tell them that we will comply within sixty days... hee, hee, hee... the same thing that they recently told us when we requested that our daughter be formally tested so that she can receive the extra help she needs in school. (Actually we asked in November, and in February, but they had ignored our plea until we sent them a very direct letter...)
Someday, the children will be important again...
Oh, I just love this Emile. That mold you speak of has killed many dreams and destroyed many a dreamer. Oh for freedoms wings that the soul and mind might soar. Just love this. Blessings, J'nia
Yes Emile, the kindest woman I ever meet was my mother, and you sharing with us yours with the tribute above, honor her for the love you did received, as I was.
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A superb poem and wonderful tribute to your grandmother, Emile! I think modern grandmothers have none of the common sense,charm , and goodness our grandmothers did. They lack the older mothering attributes.
Mary Angela Nangini's poems celebrate the richness of life and love. From the city to cottage-country and the roads in between, Nangini explores the changing seasons of her varied region. (This book will soon be reprinted in hard cover.)
This collection of poetry addresses the nature of time, reflections on the natural world, the difficulty of loss,
contemporary social issues and gratitude for life.
A beautiful inspiring composition.
I salute You, Poet.
In admiration,
Andre Emmanuel Bendavi ben-YEHU
When I told my husband of the phone call he responded that I should tell them that we will comply within sixty days... hee, hee, hee... the same thing that they recently told us when we requested that our daughter be formally tested so that she can receive the extra help she needs in school. (Actually we asked in November, and in February, but they had ignored our plea until we sent them a very direct letter...)
Someday, the children will be important again...
Cryssa
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Georg
Newfie Hugs, Rose
A beautiful poem. May we just agree to disagree that when childhood ends, we are out of our dreams. Cheers! Liz
Eileen