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That Kind Of Guy
by Steve E Ralph → (All Poetry by Steve E Ralph)
Monday, May 16, 2016    Rated "PG13" by the Author.
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Just a fictional retelling of a very old and sad story, but with a twist.
I hope you enjoy reading it.
Steve.





I walked into the barroom,
My eye black and swelled,
And my friends gathered round me,
Saying, “Come on buddy, tell”,

“How did you get that black eye,
And that split and swollen lip?
That must have been a fight to see,
It’s a shame that we missed it”.

Well I said, “You’re right, it was a hell of a fight,
Between me and some wise guy”,
Then I told them a story, both violent and gory,
Which from beginning to end was a lie.

No-one had sucker punched me,
And broke my nose and tooth,
But it was easier to lie, to this bunch of guys,
Than it was to tell them the truth.

How could I admit, that I’d been beaten and kicked,
Spat at and cut with a knife?
How could I confess, I’d been punched in the chest,
At home, by my very own wife?

What would they say, if I tried to explain,
I had not even tried to defend?
I’d be laughed at and mocked, a real laughing stock,
Less than a man among men.

I know what they’d do cause I’ve heard them,
Talk about others I’ve known,
They could not comprehend that one of their friends,
Could be so abused, while at home.

By a slender, young, slip of a woman,
Yes I know what my buddies would think,
But they could never conceive or ever believe,
The state she gets in when she drinks.

Of course sober, she’s a whole different woman,
And butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth,
But her drinking’s becoming a problem,
And it’s going to get worse, I’ve no doubt.

You’re probably wondering why I don’t leave her,
Or at least hit her back when she’s drunk,
That’s just not how I am, I’m not that sort of man,
No matter how low she has sunk.

I’ve loved her too long and too deeply,
To ever give up and forsake her,
So I just hope and pray, that with my help she may,
Conquer these demons that take her,

Until then, I’ll be right there to catch her,
Whenever she stumbles or falls.
And I can take the abuse and the occasional bruise,
For she’s the woman I love, after all.

It’s for better or worse I had promised,
So for better or worse it will be,
Because deep in my heart, I know at the start,
She would have done that much for me.

And if I’m not there at her side, when she needs me,
Then what kind of a husband am I?
Yes I could just pack up and leave her.
But like I said, I’m not that kind of guy.


By S.E.Ralph

14-5-2016

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 Reviews of "That Kind Of Guy"
Reviewed on May 16, 2016
Have you ever checked out Al-Anon? I understand your situation all too well but the other way around. God bless!

Love ya!

Jane

Reviewed by Ronald Hull
Reviewed on May 16, 2016
Certainly the other side of the coin that doesn't get attention. Thanks for bringing it to us. Last night I watched a segment of Naked and Afraid. When the woman participant started suffering from lack of sleep she became very abusive, threatened to "kill" her fellow participant and even quenched their life-giving fire in a hateful move. The producers took her out of the show.

When my mother worked in a shoe factory, she fell down the stairs at our house one time going into the basement to do the laundry. When the girls at work saw her swollen face and black eye, they immediately assumed that my father had beaten her. She couldn't convince them otherwise.

Ron

Reviewed by Diana Wiles
Reviewed on May 16, 2016
She needs help...like the men who beat their wives...
I used to work in a refuge for women,
But there were no refuges for men....
A story that is increasingly common...
And you tell it very well...
Diana....

Reviewed by Jerry Bolton
Reviewed on May 16, 2016
I can relate somewhat. I was not, and still aren't the kind of guy who uses my fists on females. Only one time have I ever, and that was because she was coming at me with a knife.


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