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FINDING LOVE
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While thinking about how we sometimes find ourselves giving more than we receive, I was inspired to write this poem.

FINDING LOVE

Finding Love means
finding someone
who compliments yourself.
Finding love means
finding someone
who enhances
your mental health.

Finding love means
feeling free
to demand respect.
Finding love means
finding someone
who respects not only you,
but everyone
who is special to you.

Finding love means
feeling free
to navigate your own life.
Finding love means
finding someone
who is not expecting you
to conform to
his/her way of life.

Finding love
is not defined as
a here today,
gone tomorrow fling.
Finding love
does not mean
you have to settle for
the first person
who comes along
and says, "I love you."

Finding love
does not mean
cultivating a relationship
with someone who's unavailable
to you.

Finding love
does not mean clinging to
someone, who's blase'
about committing to you.

Finding love
should not sentence you
to a "Do-It-Yourself"
relationship,
in which you have to carry
all the burdens. Whew!

Finding love means
sharing a fifty-fifty effort
in making
the relationship successful.

Finding love means
you both share zero tolerance
for abuse.
Finding love means
finding someone
who is just as serious about
committing to a long term
relationship as you.

Finding love means
you're able to sit down
and talk about
why the relationship
isn't working out
without worrying about
someone giving up
and walking out on you...

Finding love
is like looking for
a needle in a haystack.

Finding love means
you must first find yourself
and love yourself.
Finding love means
loving yourself enough
to recognize when
enough is enough!



Copyright © 2003 by Dolores Dawes, all rights reserved.


                

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Reviewed by Regis Auffray
Reviewed on May 12, 2006
Hi Dolores,

One of my siblings (who is really spiritual) recently gave me a description of love. I share it with you:

Love has a different tune: I love you, therefore you are free to do as you wish. My love says you cannot do any wrong in my sight. My love says you cannot hurt me for it would not wish to make you responsible for the way I feel. My love says I am here for you if you want me, or I can be gone if that is what you wish. My love does not depend on your performance to exist - it depends entirely on a choice I make, moment by moment. My love accepts that you may even come to hate me for what I am and it is strong enough not to compromise itself to please you. My love cannot be manipulated. My capacity to love is infinite and is not bound by your feelings or desires.

Thank you for sharing your sentiments. Love and peace to you,

Regis

Reviewed on April 26, 2006

A positive thinking on "FINDING LOVE" place the guidlines for a get together in harmony.

This poem, "FINDING LOVE" made me think on the difference between true love and LOVE AFFAIRS.

I have enjoyed the reading of "FINDING LOVE".

Keep posting, Poet!


Andre Emmanuel Bendavi ben-YEHU

Reviewed by William Baker
Reviewed on December 27, 2004
Great words from a blessed mind.

Reviewed by john zimmerman
Reviewed on April 20, 2004
here is clear thinking and hard-won wisdom

Nicely done!

john+

Reviewed by William Heffner
Reviewed on February 4, 2004
Well done, it seems we have to find the one masquerading as an angel of light before we can recognize the true light.

Thanks for sharing

God Bless You and Your Loved Ones

Officer William Heffner

Reviewed by P Lewis
Reviewed on November 20, 2003
Well done, Dolores! I have found in my work with hurting people, especially women, that loving oneself is the key to loving others. That is what Jesus meant when He said "Love your neighbor as yourself." You put a lot of thought into this work.
Patsy Lewis

Reviewed by Rodd Jokre (Reader)
Reviewed on October 27, 2003
You make very good points! Thanks!

Reviewed by Rosalyn Smith
Reviewed on September 28, 2003
Excellent write and the last paragraph sums it all up and is the key that we often miss.

Reviewed by Jerri Noble (Reader)
Reviewed on September 26, 2003
I love the last line of this poem. It is so true. Love the poem.

Reviewed by Renee Bagley (Reader)
Reviewed on September 25, 2003
Very well said! This poem IS the definition of love! Great job!

Reviewed by Nicole Davis Vergara (Reader)
Reviewed on September 23, 2003
A wonderful piece of aspiring inspiration Dolores!
~Nikki~

Reviewed by Kevin Mc Crum (Reader)
Reviewed on September 23, 2003
And thats why I am loveless! Great write.

Reviewed on September 23, 2003
Excellent, Dolores! This could be the ten commandments of finding love. It's funny that it's something every heart yearns for, but many won't go the distance for finding love. Great write....
In Spirit,
Bear

Reviewed by Debby Rosenberg
Reviewed on September 23, 2003
yes, that sums it nicely

Reviewed by Christine Morell
Reviewed on September 23, 2003
A wise and inspiring poem. Very well done Dolores.
~Chrissie


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