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Not Qualified?
by Eileen Clemens Granfors → (All Poetry by Eileen Clemens Granfors)
Wednesday, February 4, 2015    Rated "G" by the Author.
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I am not a fan of the new parenting.


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I vouch for new visions for my granddaughter.
Science, math, books, experiments, mud, dirt, art museums, cooking.
Stuff Disney princesses in a trash can
and take Barbie too. Explore the world
You live in, not just make believe. Live your life in gratitude, not in attitude,
Don't believe that shoes and clothes make the girl,
And the smallest boo-boos hurt so much
and must be bandaged with hearts on the band-aids,
And the band-aids must be pink.
"Don't touch the baby," daughter-in-law yelled
When I met the little one, after restlessly abiding
The six-week moratorium on visits imposed.
"Wash your hands before you touch her,"
As if I were a known carrier of some violent and dangerous disease.
My god, how did any of us survive childhood,
Careless as our parents were about where
We went for how long on our bikes, and going
Without dinner if we didn't like what was on the plate?
I know. I know. A peaceful heart creates a peaceful mind.
My grandkids are great, just different.
And distant. And nothing I say or spend or do
Will change the opinion of someone brought up
Without grace, gratitude, or God in her life.
Her children are her sacred idols.
And I am not of that faith.
   

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Reviewed by J. Roseline
Reviewed on February 5, 2015
So true and this is everywhere. I am glad I got to read your poem. well penned. One day i will be a grandmother too J K Roseline

Reviewed by Ed Matlack
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
This, young lady, was a fun read, I hope that little one grows well as while her mother is cautious now, she will change when she gets more kids on her hands...the first is always treated with specialness...-e- (don't let grandpop get near her or suffer the poor little child, hope she grows up looking like you rather than her pop-pop...)

Reviewed by Michael Schafer
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
Well said. Another thing that gets me, is when every kid gets a reward, no matter how good or poorly they did. Not everyone can be a winner all the time. One has to have something to strive for.

Michael D.

Reviewed by Mary Ann Biddinger
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
~Eileen~
Grandchildren are our life's heartbeat.
Grace, gratitude, and God in her life would
be a blessing. Beautifully penned.

Lady Mary Ann

Reviewed by Ronald Hull
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
I'm with you. It drives me crazy when I see parents these days coddling their children and suffocating them with no freedom and materialistic consumerism. And I'm talking about the way my ex-wife treated her daughter! Damned little princess at 16! I pity her husbands… She'll have several.

But I missed the point… I believe every word of your damn good poem.

Ron

Reviewed by George Carroll
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
We were called brats back then.

Reviewed by Regis Auffray
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
Meaningful, apt, and timely philosophy, Eileen. My first grandchild was born a couple of weeks ago so I find you poem most fitting. Love and best wishes,

Regis

Reviewed by E Phillips
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
I could not agree more! Your words overflow with common sense as well as beauty. So well said.

Reviewed by Jerry Bolton
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
Loved your insightful word, Eileen, and they need to become the "bible" of the learning, growing and living experience. Television. Something that could have been an absolute genius-like technology. It could have, but it turned into a means to brainwash the nation into ind-numbed robots. And now we have our computers. Every sentence in this is special. Thank you.

Reviewed by Richard Cederberg
Reviewed on February 4, 2015
Great pic. That face of yours reflects much. And I have no idea how I survived my childhood. An act of Grace - I suppose.
I agree - 'explore the world you live in, not just make-believe'. For me real-life is the fuel for imagination, not TV. Of course, on a droll note, sometimes my walk through the workday seems like fantasies because so much unexpected transpires. (-: A sensitive honest insight you've shared, Eileen. I enjoyed reading this. Continued inspiration.
Peace... rlc


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