Culture is a major determinent of progress. You may either lag behind or move forward due to the nature of your culture.
She dreamed of conceiving
Of expecting the unborn
Of giving birth to a baby
Of caring and loving
Of feeding with breast milk
Of becoming a mother
But that hasn’t been the case
She was an infertile woman
With feelings of remorse
She felt a pain inside out
Though unable to carry them off
She tried to articulate a sentence
She spoke with herself in silence
As she listened to herself speaking
Mana has entered her sixth year of marriage
Never has she been able to conceive so far
Culture lays blame on women for being infertile
Regards them as being possessed by evil spirits
As the date of her monthly period draws closer
Mana looks forward to a bitter anguish of shame
Menstruation is a pain she undergoes on regular basis
She is guilty of a crime she had never committed
They wrapped her feelings in a wet blanket of gloom
Empathy is a cure for such lives despaired by culture
What a tragic way to live, and I am surprised that she has not taken her own life to relieve herself of the shame that is constantly cast upon her. It is so wrong to accuse her without knowing if, perhaps, it is her husband who is the infertile one, or if something could be done to aid her in conception. The world is a crowded place and perhaps it is right that some of us choose not procreate, but it does always seem to be the ones who are unable to conceive who are the same ones who have always dreamed of being a mother. With the state of the world as it is, there are so many orphaned or unwanted children, that I would think that taking one of those children into her home and raising him/her as her own might cast a bit of extra light upon her pathway to heaven and also fill an empty space in her heart. Thank you for sharing this, I really didn't want to believe that this kind of thinking still existed.
Take care,
Sherry
Such a terrible travesty when ignorance continues in this day and age! A heartbreaking , but much needed poem to enlighten people of what still takes place in many countries.Thanks for sharing Abdi noor!
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Take care,
Sherry
Lve,
Eileen
(((HUGS))), love and prayer, Karla.