Judge the choices I've made in the past-
If you feel you must, in order to understand me.
But before you pass judgment on me, stop fo a moment,
And remember I'm the one who had to live with those choices-
Just as you, and everyone else, must live with theirs ,too.
Actually, being understood by you is not a priority to me at this time.
For I am only beginning to understand myself.
But judge me, if you must.
Just remember that you will be judged according to how you judge me.