We use words,
They trip off the tongue;
But what is their true meaning,
Without making us feel undone.
Shame can be a good thing,
Worn as a suit or a summer dress.
With shame we cover our private parts,
A natural instinct that beats in our hearts.
But shame can be a hateful thing,
Where blame features as a casual fling.
Someone catches us in a self-serving lie;
Shame makes us feel we want to die.
One more example should suffice;
A word can serve as both virtue and vice.
We need to think before we speak;
Otherwise, we may seem thoughtless and weak.
Pride can be a good thing;
We wear it like a cloak of colors.
We have achieved something only ours;
We have captured a handful of crumpled stars.
But pride can be a hateful thing,
In which shame features as its middle name.
We have achieved nothing but ifs and whethers;
We have captured a handful of pigeon feathers.
Beware of words that have different things to say;
It’s like waiting for something the livelong day.
Waiting for someone you hope doesn’t arrive,
Waiting for someone that in arriving, you thrive.
Ah, the paradoxical nature of a well-primed lexicon of usage. Yes, there are certain "feeling" that words like shame and blame conjure up, but as in all experiences, there is much to be derived from looking for the paradoxical meaning of a word choice. Often a word can be constructed in a sentence, paragraph or stanza that easily affords such consideration. Those are the kind of words I love to savor. I learned long ago, in order for this reader to maintain his sanity, he had to allow for premises suggesting that black is white, right can be wrong, et al. Thanks for reminding me of this principal I hold dear.
I must agree with most of your thoughts herein, John. But in the case of shame I think we don't necessarily cover our private parts because of shame, but many times because of obscenity laws. Also besides that, even if we are ashamed it is because of the fact we have been brain-washed to consider certain parts of our body as being somewhat "dirty." Just had to nitpick a bit buddy!
While reading, I began to remember those times that my words were mistaken. And, those times when my words were clearly offensive because I wanted to, "rattle a cage or two."
The songs and art in this book are about our collective emergence after the pandemic and trauma of the last few years - comprised of 5 collections: World as Refuge, Where We Live, In Our Hands, Rhythms of Change and What We See & Sow.
Love ya!
Jane
Ron