I. crutches/canes braces/wheelchairs glasses/hearing aids medication/rehabilitation the "trappings" of the disabled whose bodies or minds don't function like "normal" peoples'
pity stares whispers comments outright rudeness what the disabled face every day of their lives
what about those that have "hidden" disabilities the ones we cannot see on the outside
II.
attitudes that they "can't" attitudes that they "shouldn't" attitudes that keep them down attitudes that keep them hidden
III.
do you think most people, if given a choice, would CHOOSE to be disabled? to be without sight/speech/hearing or be unable to walk/think/reason would be a terrible thing to comprehend.
why would anyone CHOOSE to be pitied? why would anyone CHOOSE to be discriminated against? why would anyone CHOOSE to be considered less of a human being, just because their mind/body doesn't work like everyone else's?
***WHAT IS NORMAL, ANYWAY?***
IV.
all i want is to be treated no differently than "normal" people. i want to work, to contribute my share to society, to be treated with dignity and respect, to be made to feel worthy...i have the same hopes, dreams, aspirations as "normal" people do; is that wrong?
is being disabled a curse from an angry god? or is it a blessing? i know that my God will not give me more than i can bear...but it is getting harder to deal with the attitudes i face every day. it's bad enough my mind/body doesn't work right.
***GOD, GIVE ME STRENGTH.***
(C) Karla Dorman, 2002/Revised, 2003.
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Reviewed by Nicole Davis Vergara (Reader)
Reviewed on October 19, 2003
Excellant powerful write Karla! I love when you do these writes my friend!
((((Hugs))))
~Nikki~
Amen to that last line.... great insight into what people really have to face every day.
God bless,
Tim
Reviewed by Jaclynn Huntington (Reader)
Reviewed on October 12, 2003
(((((Karla)))))
You said it ever so well! We all are 'damaged' in some way... but we all have something special that makes us unique. Who wants to be lost in a herd of sheep anyway. Excellent write, sweetie.
~Jackie~
Reviewed by Floria Kelderhouse (Reader)
Reviewed on October 12, 2003
Karla I know exactly what you are saying...people can be so rude to the handicapped...gosh when my daughter and I go to the mall with my grandchild and a stroller we get shunned...people seem to hate children and strollers too...it seems we are all in their way...what a pity...this was so heartfelt Karla...You are you....and just as good as anyone else...don't ever forget that...God bless....floria
Another splendid meaningful write Karla! You're on a roll;-)! God allows us to be afflicted on this earth within natures events,such as weather, accidents etc. besides those that Satan causes, due to our not following Gods will, but doing our own.When we follow our own paths we are susceptible all the worlds problems.If God had to intervene in everyones life on earth there would be no reason for salvation and the better world to come...
((((KARLA))) the disability lies in the attitudes of these as*holes, I'm sorry, I know that you don't like this sort of language, but hell we're all disabled in one way or another. Sending much love to you!
Karla, in my distant past, I transported folks with all types of disabilities, in wheelchairs and on transport ambulances, & I tried to treat them with the same respect I would want to be treated with...this is a very well written & profound statement of truths that any organization that deals with the disabled should use in their group as a sort of statement...thanks, ED
Reviewed by Robert Blackwell (Reader)
Reviewed on October 12, 2003
Very profound write, Karla! {{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
WOW! a powerful and eloquently stated poem that exudes with pure emotion and the feelings ALL people with disabilities share. i know how you feel, and i feel this way, at times, myself. being disabled in a nondisabled world is NOT easy, but we have to learn to accept our disabilities and not let others govern us or how we should live our lives. we are as much people as the "normal ones", those who don't have disabilities (but then, what IS "normal"??), and we deserve as much of a chance to succeed in life as anyone else! good message contained in this write; thanks for opening the eyes of those who may not understand what it is like to "BE DISABLED". (((HUGS))) and much love, your twin, karen lynn. :D BRAVA for a courageous write!
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((((Hugs))))
~Nikki~
Love Tinka
God Bless
~Michelle~
excellent write...
God bless,
Tim
You said it ever so well! We all are 'damaged' in some way... but we all have something special that makes us unique. Who wants to be lost in a herd of sheep anyway. Excellent write, sweetie.
~Jackie~
Excellent message!
Reindeer
Love, Janet xoxoxoxo
WOW! a powerful and eloquently stated poem that exudes with pure emotion and the feelings ALL people with disabilities share. i know how you feel, and i feel this way, at times, myself. being disabled in a nondisabled world is NOT easy, but we have to learn to accept our disabilities and not let others govern us or how we should live our lives. we are as much people as the "normal ones", those who don't have disabilities (but then, what IS "normal"??), and we deserve as much of a chance to succeed in life as anyone else! good message contained in this write; thanks for opening the eyes of those who may not understand what it is like to "BE DISABLED". (((HUGS))) and much love, your twin, karen lynn. :D BRAVA for a courageous write!