The Hierarchy of Communication
The lowest form to the highest and best of all.
This is highly opinionated, but it's true after all...
1. Texting Sorry, U R 2 busy 2 spell.
2. E-mail Better, but I don't really know how you feel.
3. Facebook I like to call "waste-book" as most of it's bogus baloney.
4. Messenger How impersonal, a waste of time and time is money.
5. Telephone Wer'e getting better as I can hear how you feel.
6. Skype I can really see you. Hey, Dick Tracy is alive and well.
7. Hand written letter - A very RARE treasure. If you write it in cursive, so much the BETTER!
8. A "LIVE" visit There is nothing like it! Still, a live visit needs to be recorded on our phone so we can treasure it when we are all alone!
John Michael Domino 10/11/19
I would change things around a bit. It takes a lot of time and effort for live visits, but I've been fortunate to have two authors here visit me recently. And I visited an author, Jerry Bolton, a few years ago and we exchanged books. These visits don't sell our books, but they do connect us with people of like mind when it comes to writing.
I can no longer write cursive. In fact, although before that I worked on my handwriting to make it as readable as my mother's perfect handwriting. But when I was paralyzed and grateful for a hand splint to start writing again at 21, I switched from cursive to architectural lettering because it was actually faster for me. And then, by 1998, I could no longer even sign my name. So for me, the computer and this dictation system that I'm using is a lifesaver. Fortunately, my dictation system doesn't understand text. I can't hold a cell phone in my hands and search for letters with my thumbs, but I agree that texting is a far better way to send messages to your lover in class silently instead of the old passing of notes is an improvement.
Finally, I still find email to be very flexible and useful for communication. When we wrote letters to one another and rarely called because of the cost of long distance, my family and I, thousands of miles apart, communicated about once a month or so. Now through email for the past 20 years we keep up with each other on a weekly basis. With my mother, it was email for many years, and then she called on her TTY phone. I have tried to get her on Face Time, but she refuses and both her phone and email have gone away.
BTW… Cell phone videos are atrocious! Most people don't know that by taking them in the landscape mode they would be much better. Just because they're handy doesn't make them take good video. If you want superb video, carry an iPad. Beats even the most expensive minicams for stability by miles. Studio quality video.
Ron