I AM OKAY. A comment by LindaLaw on Michelle Kidwell's blog inspired these line. Not falling off the wagon. =]
C'mon, have a drink
Can't
Why not? It can't hurt
NO
My name is Karla and I am an alcoholic
Been sober 24 years, but the temptation
still there, bumping just below the surface,
panting, wanting to slake its thirst, wanting
to be released, wanting to wreak havoc again
(The monster)
that's what he wants
to be let go
to have total control
I CAN'T LET THAT HAPPEN
(One leads to another to another to oblivion
and before you know it, you're in his clutches)
I press my lips together
squash him flat under my will
I WILL NOT let him out
He WILL NOT have me again
My WILL is stronger
Karla, your will to survive and remain happy are strong -- you have the "Monster" under your control -- keep him there -- much love and peace Jon Michael
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Karla. I think each of us, in our own way, has addictions...whether it be drinking, smoking, stealing, lying, eating chocolate, watching certain t.v. shows, exercising...etc... These are words all of us need to hear.
I applaud you, Karla. It's hard to break habits and keep them crushed underfoot - especially diseases. This reminds me of my battle with bulimia. (Not sure if I spelled that right.) The urge is always there. Most recently...cigarettes. I haven't smoked since my back surgery - almost 7 months now. Thank you for sharing this poem. Love,
Sheila
"Squash him flat under my will" ... what a powerful image and excellent show of strength! We all have demons of one sort or another, but it is inspiring to read of ones ability to fight them off with all they've got! Great piece! Hugs, Elizabeth
Karla, you are a brave and wonderful woman!
What you have overcome is a testament to your
will,and your faith in God!Others can benefit
from your sharing! God bless you always!
Maybe the normal people are those that are in control of their lives, the ones that know where the temptations monsters lie and like St George bear the conviction lance to have it at bay.
Courage is to know when to attack and when to duck!
Karla
You did what you had to do, and I know it could not have been easy, I am proud of you, and as you know that blog was in no way a reflection of you, it is just written out of the anger of a fresh loss, and today we find out, this monster may get no time or at the most four years. Thank you for sharing
In Christs Love
Michelle~
Karla, Keep up the great work!My sister died because of being an alcoholic and luckily I found out early that I can't drink.I found early that one drink would not be enough. In fact there would never be enough. I haven't had a drink for 29 years. Yea!It IS a monster. I agree. I am with you- the monster is NOT going to get me - or kill me.
With Love,
Cindy
This is good. When one realizes and admits to alcoholism, that when one is sober and healed.
Alcoholism is not an addiction, it is a disease, and there are many reasons that are unknown and yet laid within a person to cause that person to drink. To be rid of alcoholism a person needs to be strong and determine and not to be swayed by the least enticement. I'm glad you have rid of this disease.
Alcoholism is a terrible disease, but you've conquered it. I have a feeling by your write you may be having urges again, don't give in!
You're a strong Christian woman, and that was another life. May God help you in your struggle. You will win, and the monster will die.
Good for you Karla, you have the stregth dear and as long as you remember the monster will try you are always one step ahead of him. I will keep you in my prayers.
Karla, I mentioned the other day how proud of you I am for being so courageous and public about this disease...You are an exceptional and beautiful woman who has conquered many negatives...and therefore, you are a hero among women; but also to all of us! Others cannot understand or know unless we learn, and we cannot learn without a teacher and/or example! Thank you for being all of these...and still being decent, kind, thoughtful, loving, and human just like us! I pray for your continued strength, and courage. hugs, lindalaw
AND you are one brave and giving lady to share such a fight...it will open many eyes Karla for your words were POWERFUL...love and hugs, and keep on fightin girl...your winning the battle and the war...love and hugs, Bonnie
I am glad you gave up drinking ('cause I would have had to hurt you if you didn't!! LOL KIDDING!!)! Good on you; you don't need that stuff in your life! Life is already complicated enough; why live it in an alcoholic haze?? No, not a good way to be! Stay on that wagon, hang on to it as tight as you can, and NEVER give in to that Monster! I won't let you!!
(((HUGS))) and much love, your twin, Karen Lynn. :D
Margaret Kohel Evans invites her mother's grandchildren to a delightful visit with their grandmother, sharing charming memories of her across eighteen life themes.
Destiny's Daughter by Frances Altman highlights events in the life of Mary Edwards Walker, maverick suffragist, Civil War doctor and only woman Medal of Honor recipient.
Share
Print
Save
Follow
Strong words from strong woman...I learn a lot from your writings.
Cynthia
Cryssa
stay dry dear friend
Love & peace be with you
William
Sheila
What you have overcome is a testament to your
will,and your faith in God!Others can benefit
from your sharing! God bless you always!
Love,
Eileen
Love,
Christine
Courage is to know when to attack and when to duck!
Georg
You did what you had to do, and I know it could not have been easy, I am proud of you, and as you know that blog was in no way a reflection of you, it is just written out of the anger of a fresh loss, and today we find out, this monster may get no time or at the most four years. Thank you for sharing
In Christs Love
Michelle~
With Love,
Cindy
This is good. When one realizes and admits to alcoholism, that when one is sober and healed.
Alcoholism is not an addiction, it is a disease, and there are many reasons that are unknown and yet laid within a person to cause that person to drink. To be rid of alcoholism a person needs to be strong and determine and not to be swayed by the least enticement. I'm glad you have rid of this disease.
Sandie Angel :o)
Alcoholism is a terrible disease, but you've conquered it. I have a feeling by your write you may be having urges again, don't give in!
You're a strong Christian woman, and that was another life. May God help you in your struggle. You will win, and the monster will die.
Mary
Newfie Hugs are on the way, Rose
peace and love, Carole~
that monster is quite an achievement. Love, gene.
Great courage here . . . and a powerful write!!
Blessings,
Lance
(((HUGS))) and much love, your twin, Karen Lynn. :D
In Spirit,
Bear