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If you can’t say something nice…say something
5/28/2007 6:22:19 AM


One of the difficulties I’ve found since I began writing has been finding readers. Well meaning friends offer to read and I send them typeset readers spreads. I was a typesetter for many years and have a couple publishing programs. My thinking was to give them the most readable copy possible to make their job easier. That didn’t seem to work. I finally had to stop sending manuscripts because it was getting too expensive and I heard from only one person.

I wasn’t sure how to handle the situation. Do I call and say, “Hi, have you read the book?” That part of me that jumps right to the dark side thought they had read it and didn’t know how to tell me they hated it. I tried to make it clear that though I may pout for a day or two, I would not stop writing if they hated my book. Writing had already become my drug of choice. One friend told me she hadn’t read it because she was afraid she might not like it and wouldn’t know how to tell me.

IT’S OKAY IF YOU DON'T LIKE MY BOOK! I’m new at this, and though I sense I have a good start, I need to hear from people what they feel is wrong or right, or what they don’t like or they think works. Once you survive the first thirty or forty years of your life, your ego isn’t as fragile. If I stopped writing because people didn’t love my words, maybe writing isn’t the right choice for a passion or a mid-life career switch. Besides, people not liking what I did never stopped me before. I would have thought my friends knew that.

Self-published authors have a difficult time finding people to do reviews. A few review sites will charge for a review and though I haven’t tried that yet, I can’t exclude the possibility. Readers may not buy a book because of the reviews on the back cover, but they won’t buy a book they’ve never seen. Visibility drives people to your website. Increasing the number of people at your website can potentially lead to sales. Sales mean I get to keep writing. I like sales.


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More Blogs by Jean Sheldon
• Go Complacently into the Night - Thursday, July 26, 2007
• An Uncommon Magpie born on the Common - Thursday, July 26, 2007
• Responsibility - Tuesday, July 24, 2007
• Reality Check - Sunday, July 22, 2007
• Priorities - Thursday, July 19, 2007
• Selling Yourself—Selling Your Books - Monday, July 16, 2007
• Okay, call me a Hypocrite - Sunday, July 15, 2007
• You Find Life When You Live It - Saturday, July 14, 2007
• Make some Room for the Rest of Us - Thursday, July 12, 2007
• Ego - Wednesday, July 11, 2007
• How do you Stay Calm in the Chaos? - Monday, July 9, 2007
• Twilight Zoned - Sunday, July 8, 2007
• Take Two Books and Call me in the Morning - Thursday, July 5, 2007
• Survival of the Considerate - Monday, July 2, 2007
• Listless on the DorothyL Listserve - Thursday, June 28, 2007
• Which way do you think our feet are facing? - Wednesday, June 27, 2007
• Always - Monday, June 25, 2007
• Upstaged by a Pigeon - Saturday, June 23, 2007
• Me and Julio Down by the Schoolyard - Friday, June 22, 2007
• The Boundaries we call Safe - Monday, June 18, 2007
• Only You Know What you Want to Achieve - Friday, June 15, 2007
• Buy my book—too subtle? - Monday, June 11, 2007
• The Great Albuquerque Mouse Tragedy - Sunday, June 10, 2007
• When are you the Most Creative? - Thursday, June 7, 2007
• I Love My Socks - Thursday, June 7, 2007
• One Man’s Peace is Another Man’s War - Tuesday, June 5, 2007
• Writer’s Block—you have the right to remain silent - Saturday, June 2, 2007
• Creating can be Scary - Wednesday, May 30, 2007
•  If you can’t say something nice…say something - Monday, May 28, 2007  

• How far do you go? - Thursday, May 24, 2007
• Sociably Shy - Wednesday, May 23, 2007
• Grist for the idea mill - Monday, May 21, 2007
• A Sense of Community - Wednesday, May 16, 2007
• Some Thoughts on Self-publishing - Monday, May 14, 2007