It Doesn't Need to be Christmas for me to Miss My Dad
(Written with love for my Dad, Lloyd S. de Vegter)
If I had known I'd miss my Dad so much on Christmas Eve
I would have painted all of us around his Christmas tree
The last real Christmas we all had when he was here and well...
We traded gifts, we laughed and smiled and couldn't really tell
That this was final for dear Dad...forever would we miss
The greatest gift was him in fact...his humor and his kiss.
His hat of red, suspenders too,the twinkle in his eyes
His call for Kate, and she's his bride, to bring his pumpkin pie
To friends he is remembered as the giving Mister "D"
When firemen came to help him get their cat out of our tree
Their kids are grown but do recall the painting that he did
On cheeks in stripes, as Indians...he'd play with all us kids
Our forts in wood and plywood to increase imagination
To work we'd go to help him out at the CSX Train Station
We'd walk to town to run the squares and never really knew
That history, art and culture would be on our menu
We never thought while walking of being in much danger
As confidence walked with us...Dad never met a stranger
From him great things were given to the kids that came along
From boats to trains and jets...a cardboard box was strong
To transport all his children, his eight and others too
Over mountains, seas and marshes out into skies so blue
We soared with groups of Eagles and flew to different lands
We walked to different drummers and even had the band
Of pots and pans and dishes...of spoons and skillets too
He led us into neighborhoods strutting with our fine gazoos
Of Boy Scouts there were many...of plays his art would grace
The stage of all our school days and never were they traced
For our Dad was an artist and the posters that he drew
Put shame to all the others and pride in us....we knew
That somehow he was magic and we were all his band
Upon this lifelong journey with our hearts held in his hands
We were eight and strong and gifted, with his wit and humor too
His pride and joy...his angels...his heart was ever true
To family, friends and strangers both animals and earth
He taught us virtues lasting of honor and its worth
To walk upon this pathway, respect your neighbors too
Uphold the laws of nature and walk in others' shoes
To me he gave his talent, of art with grace and style
To give, as he would have me do, to others that may need
A brush to make them happy and some paint to draw the seed
Of dreams with hopes and laughter...of Santa and his sleigh
And help to bring his memory back to us on Christmas Day
For Dad, he is the spirit, of what this season's meant
Of faith and hope...of giving and the happiness that's spent
On presents made or bought, at times and money gladly lent
To others for their children's toys and dinners for their crew
Dad never met a stranger and he walked in all their shoes.
IT IS WONDERFUL TO HAVE HAD A DAD WHO MADE SUCH A IMPACT ON ONE'S LIFE THAT THEY ARE EVER INFLUENCED BY THEIR LIVING. I AM 65, MY DAD IS DECEASED BUT I STILL REMEMBER THAT SWEET, SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN FONDLY. THANKS FOR SHARING THIS GREAT WORK AND BLESSINGS.
JOYCE * HIS INSPIRATIONS
What a close love I feel from your heart for your a dear sweet Dad!
Wonderful Tribute Sue!
Makes me think of my mom, being without her this Christmas!
EnJOY! YOur Christmas Holidays Moments, that I wish with last throughout the NEW YEAR! - 2008 -
Much love and Warmer Blessings, Warrior Purple Lady Sweet Sheooxoo
Only a person, who has her Dad that deep in her heart, could write such a beautiful and touching piece of poetry, and He will see it for he is with you in Spirit especially at Christmas! God Bless You!
Jasmin Horst
Life just isn't the same. . . . .
What a FINE tribute
A very emotional write
Excellently done as you always do.
Merry Christmas to you - May your wishes come true.
Doug
Reviewed by Joseph* OneLight*® (Reader)
Reviewed on December 4, 2007
Dear Susan,
This really touches my heart as this will be the first Christmas without my dad.
Beautiful tribute poem - touching, and contains much of what i imagine Christmas time is meant to be - through a portrait of a fine, generous, and caring gentleman - a good dad, a great poem -Nicky xx
Oh heck, after losing my fav uncle, and my best mate this year, yikes how i relate.
My way out is to see advent kinda like lent, but with more depth, and see Christs Birthday for what it is... Not the food etc, trappings etc, but this year I will be on my own, first time ever, but in thanks for the day in its real meaning.
Susan, this is one of the finest tributes to a Dad I have ever read...it touched me and caused me to remember the loving care of my dear Dad whose been gone for several years. You truly captured a class act that would be hard to ever copy...he left you & your siblings with many beautiful memories of his love, his talents, and the gifts he left behind for you. An exceptional writing. I wish you & yours a blessed Holiday Season!
This choked me up for it brought back memories of my own father, but as I read it I thought of you and your nature as well as myself and my own nature and came to realize they have not gone, just metamorphed into our own beings. Hugs
A truly heartfelt and loving piece, Susan. Your Dad would be extremely proud of you. My Holidays have never been the same either since I lost my Dad, and they never will be.
The holidays are always sadder when you've lost someone...a most beautiful, poignant rememberance. His gift to you is his memory; you pen a lasting legacy. Well done, Susan.
Susan this is just priceless, sacred. I miss my beautiful Daddy so much. Yours must have been a wonderful man.
Reviewed by Jerry Bolton (Reader)
Reviewed on December 3, 2007
Absolutely lovely and riveting to me, and yes, it had a slightly bitter taste to me, but you know why that is, and probably everybody else here at AD . . .
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JOYCE * HIS INSPIRATIONS
Wonderful Tribute Sue!
Makes me think of my mom, being without her this Christmas!
EnJOY! YOur Christmas Holidays Moments, that I wish with last throughout the NEW YEAR! - 2008 -
Much love and Warmer Blessings, Warrior Purple Lady Sweet Sheooxoo
STay Positive!
Jasmin Horst
What a FINE tribute
A very emotional write
Excellently done as you always do.
Merry Christmas to you - May your wishes come true.
Doug
This really touches my heart as this will be the first Christmas without my dad.
Love & Light always and in all ways,
Joseph*
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Eileen
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Walt
This is such a wonderful tribute to your dad. He knows, he is still in your heart and his spirit is soaring.
Peace, Love, and Light,
Amber "V"
My way out is to see advent kinda like lent, but with more depth, and see Christs Birthday for what it is... Not the food etc, trappings etc, but this year I will be on my own, first time ever, but in thanks for the day in its real meaning.
Love this, you have such a beaut heart....
Fee
(((HUGS))) and love, Karla.