Kissing up is one of the last things in the world that anyone wants to do.
Doing it makes a person feel kind of untrue . It works though. It will help keep your life out of the blue. Forever more. I know some of you are thinking, " this guy is nuts, I'm not kissing peoples butts!" I use to feel the same way in my hay day. Kissing up just wasn't my way to play. After the years past and I finally figured that I wanted to last, I started changing my attitudes real fast. Oh, you don't kiss everyones behind, just the ones that are important and hard to find. Like your mate, your husband or your wife. People you just have to have in your life. The ones you can't get rid of. These are the ones that you treat with a soft glove.
My marriage wouldn't work out if I didn't kiss up to my wife. Our lives would be full of strife. Besides I get to have things my way more often. It just works out this way when the attitude is soften.
Even at work I kiss up a little to my boss. It's better than an out the door toss. I love my job so I kiss up to keep it at almost any cost.
You all can criticize me for turning into such a butt kisser if you want. Caring I don't. You see I have a goal to make my life much easier. Knowing the butt kssing technique is actually just a smart teaser. I really don't kiss up that much. I just lightened my touch. Quit being so mean. Try it you'll definitely see more green.
Anyway, it is nice to have control. Being a nicer person in a smart way just gives you a stronger hold. It might not seem that way at first. However, when things start falling in place, the control you end up having will just increase your thirst.
I know this sounds crazy but believe me, I've been operating this way for many years now. I've been a much happier person since I backed off and became nicer. Maybe a lttle to nice. When people think they have you figured out, then you hit them from another direction, you knock them completely off guard. Even yourself.
My wife expects anger out of me sometimes, however she gets the nice me. She doesn't even know how to act.
Normally when she would ask for more money I wouldn't give it to her. Now I do. Later on I get double back. She goes out of her way to push money off on me.
Kiss UP Grady ....AND keep kissing up to that woman :) If it wasn't her you'd be kissing up to....it could be someone ALOT worse. Start Kissing up....(MORE OFTEN)to her and see what nice things it brings out of her ....lol.... Fantastic thoughts...
I went from tell it like it is and blatanly honest to respond only when necessary and if you don't have anything kind to say....kindness does work. Great message
Hey Grady, I think of a few beauties I would love to kiss and cherish. I don't have a wife you know.BTW, Did I ever tell you Annpolis was old stomping grounds for me. Not a bad little town. Sorry about my spelling.
Sometimes butt-kissing is the fine line between self-preservation and happiness, Grady, I applaud your laud. :)
Reviewed by Dove (Reader)
Reviewed on April 24, 2003
Grady,
I like your take it or leave it brother style..he he..I LIKE IT >>
Reviewed by Lady Peg (Reader)
Reviewed on April 24, 2003
Oh Grady,
Smiles
"A form of control
To helps keep hold
Kissing up
Blaw blaw)))))) "
Peggy
Reviewed by Elizabeth Taylor (Reader)
Reviewed on April 24, 2003
YOu can catch more flies with honey, Grady. It's called balancing your needs and wants with others needs and wants. Negotiation. It means you gain more than you ever can conceive of losing. Insightful work.
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Teresa
I so agree.. Good job with this piece :)
--Karissa
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tony
I like your take it or leave it brother style..he he..I LIKE IT >>
Smiles
"A form of control
To helps keep hold
Kissing up
Blaw blaw)))))) "
Peggy