Love and Loss
by John Herlihy
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What steadies us more in love?
What changes us more in loss?
What makes us more complete?
What clearly breaks our heart?
The power of love that fills us,
The power of loss that empties us,
The sense of fullness that love brings,
The sense of emptiness that lost brings.
As the cup complete in its fullness,
As the cup complete in its emptiness,
We come to understand the one,
We come to understand the other.
In understanding, love empties us,
In understanding, loss can fills us,
In filling us, love will take us away,
In emptying us, a loss never goes away.
Love pours its emotion into life's cup.
Loss empties its emotion from life's cup.
In the fullness of love, dust can settle,
In the emptiness of loss, dust never settles.
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Copyright © John Herlihy
Thursday 9 July 2026
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