if given a choice do you think
most people would choose to be
disabled? to be without sight
speech hearing or be unable
to walk think reason would be a
terrible thing to comprehend.
who would choose to be
discriminated against in
the workplace? why is it so hard
for the disabled to find a
good job, one that will support their
needs and make them feel important
independant valuable?
is being disabled a curse from an
angry god or is it a blessing
from a loving God? i know that He
will not give us more than we can
bear...but it is getting harder to
cope with all of the pain and all of
the frustrations i face each
and every day...God, give me strength.
I am disabled myself. I have severe degenerative disc disease, sciatic nerve pain, and osteoarthritis; have had this since 1983 (arthritis diagnosed in 1986). I receive around $200.00 a month from the VA, and I must work at a low paying job because I cannot live on what they send me. Do you think I'd choose to live in pain 24/7? Do you think I enjoy being discriminated against? (Before I found my current job, it took me nearly 6 months to find work, because I walk with assistance and don't have transportation). This isn't the best job, but it is the only one I could find, and with the economy being what it is, I must stay with it. For the most part, I love my job, but I wish I could do better...
you go for it girl what a wonderful story of strength and courage ...
Reviewed by Elizabeth Taylor (Reader)
Reviewed on May 2, 2002
I walked with a cane for twenty years. Bad knees, bad joints, pathetically bad back. Couldn't put my foot up to walk up a step. Traveled all over the world with my cane and muscle relaxers. Started my own consulting business. One day a kind friend suggested I take Karate. I laughed till I cried. How I wanted to. The instructor called one day, and said 'come visit, bring your cane.' I did, just to shock him in to realizing I was handicapped in the worst way. He was patient. In three months I could touch my toes. In a year, I was up on a sixteen foot ladder painting the house. The neighbors said I was giving the neighborhood a bad rep. My Karate discipline is Shuri Rhu. Not quite pain free...but do I feel great...and I am thankful for that wonderful friend, who I though was crazy as a loon. I am also...61 years old. A recent picture is on my website. Come visit, and if you need encouragement...email. Love, Elizabeth
Reviewed by Rita Putatunda (Reader)
Reviewed on May 1, 2002
The people who try and put so-called disabled people down are the ones that are diasbled - their minds are disabled. Don't let them touch your brave heart.
point blank ~ it sucks, doesn't it. i am labeled too. thank you for your bravery, for being a voice to let others know that they are not alone. i pray that you make a fortune from your writes. God bless you.
love, janet xoxoxoxo
Reviewed by Dens Dreamweaver (Reader)
Reviewed on April 30, 2002
I understand this as well. I am disabled with Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue, raynauds, And a few other. I don't work, can't work.. and am on disability. And am a single mother.. So I do know your struggles.. and what pain is like. If you ever need to talk feel free to drop me a note.
Love and Light
dreamweaver
Reviewed by Dens Dreamweaver (Reader)
Reviewed on April 30, 2002
Karla, I ask some of these questions every day as I am "disabled" as well...though I don't like that word... I have Cerebral Palsy...
Reviewed by Cathy Montgomery (Reader)
Reviewed on April 30, 2002
Karla, your write also touched my heart. Most don't suffer as you do and may feel uncomfortable with your honest expression.
It's not that they don't want to understand--they just don't know how to encourage you.
There are also many who quietly struggle day in and day out with similar problems as yours, but they can't express themselves as clearly and effectively as you can. You are their voice...
Thank you for sharing your heart with us...
Reviewed by Gregory Sonn (Reader)
Reviewed on April 30, 2002
Hi Karla,
I too am disabled and know what you mean and feel for you. I am a diabetic and have degenerative arthritis in my joints. I can't walk without special boots for ankle support and my shoulders also. I get cortizone shots for my hips so I know of the pain of which you speak. It is never absent from our bodies and we don't need the crap we get on top of it from the gov't! As for the rest I think they just don't know what to say or do and probably feel worse than we do with the situation of knowing what to do. Hang in there is a very tired statement but what can we do? I wish you well. Gregg
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love, janet xoxoxoxo
Love and Light
dreamweaver
It's not that they don't want to understand--they just don't know how to encourage you.
There are also many who quietly struggle day in and day out with similar problems as yours, but they can't express themselves as clearly and effectively as you can. You are their voice...
Thank you for sharing your heart with us...
I too am disabled and know what you mean and feel for you. I am a diabetic and have degenerative arthritis in my joints. I can't walk without special boots for ankle support and my shoulders also. I get cortizone shots for my hips so I know of the pain of which you speak. It is never absent from our bodies and we don't need the crap we get on top of it from the gov't! As for the rest I think they just don't know what to say or do and probably feel worse than we do with the situation of knowing what to do. Hang in there is a very tired statement but what can we do? I wish you well. Gregg