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Understanding Why

by William S Cottringer — Read all 146 poems by William S Cottringer

Can we really understand human behavior and the why of it? Reality would say otherwise.

Tuesday, March 28, 2017


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 Understanding Why

By         

Bill Cottringer

 

Sitting here trying very hard,

To figure out a mystery,

Even harder to figure out—

A sensible explanation,

Of something not always

Quite so sensible,

As human behavior?

It is important to get right,

And you know why,

Because it relates to use,

Of something important

As using free will,

to find elusive success.

But we really know so little:

Like what exactly is success?

Or do we even have free will?

How can we anticipate outcomes,

From virtually infinite interactions,

Of thoughts, feelings, and beliefs,

Assumptions, experiences and choices,

Just to mention an important few.

Then of course there is another problem,

The problem with using words,

To explain or understand this mystery,

When there is too much space

In between the chosen words,

And what they are supposed to mean.

Well now,

Is a confession in order?

Perhaps we are a bit ignorant,

Professing to know the why.

Such honesty might change,

Some ruling paradigms,

Needing to be set aside,

So we can get on with it—

Helping all of us be successful,

By sharing what we do know

For sure, which is nothing much,

But together is much more. 

The Prosperity Zone



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Reviewed on March 29, 2017
though success and failure are both stressful, it is a good idea to close a deal and get a positive result now than leave it for an uncertain/certain while. The main factor here is the temporal factor, which means 'fast lane.' On the other hand, it does not guarantee any kind of what is used to be known as 'a happy life' full of gratification; and this is because of the human nature -- to go figure alone or all together -- the contradiction is mandatory and always there. . . A nice attempt to put a question once again. Cheers, alex (BTW, what the picture above is all about?)

Reviewed by William Cottringer
Reviewed on March 29, 2017
Main points I tried to make:

1. Human behavior is far more complex that the scientific predictors imagine (computer calculation of all the infinite interactions may be the only way to come close)
2. When we share our secrets and suspicions we can get farther then when we try it alone.
3. Judging things into opposite categories decreases our chances of being successful in half.
4. John's definition of success is the only one that makes sense to me because we all know external validation rarely includes the masses.
5. I think success is how much you "love" compared to doing the opposite. Love is using your positive energy to enable others to become happier and more successful, improving each situation a little more than it was when you came upon it, rather than doing anything to make a situation worse

Reviewed by Ronald Hull
Reviewed on March 29, 2017
Almost appears to be a rant for its intensity. I do not have such misgivings even though I know that human behavior is far more complex and difficult to comprehend than I have intelligence to do. I just know that I can trust some people and not others.

Ron

Reviewed by John Domino
Reviewed on March 28, 2017
An excellent thought provoking poem! Success is placing your head on the pillow at the end of each day with joy and peace in your heart knowing that you did your very best. Perpetual success is truly experiencing this continuously just about every day. Peace be with you William!

Reviewed by Jerry Bolton
Reviewed on March 28, 2017
Eh, I think we all understand "human behavior," we just tend to forget abut it.


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