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Value of Hindsight
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Thursday, June 10, 2021    Rated "G" by the Author.
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-- The Value of Hindsight --

John Herlihy

 

There was a time when he listened,

To all the things that she did say.

There was a time when he heard,

All the things that she did not say.

 

A time he felt only he was listening,

Whether things were ever said nor not.

A time he felt when only he heard,

All the things that were said or not said.

 

There was a time when he remembered,

All the things that he freely told her.

There was a time when he wanted to forget,

All the things that he freely told her.

 

There was a time when he forgot,

Many of the things that he told her.

There was a time he tried to remember,

What he told her to tell her what to forget.

 

There was a certain kind of forgetting,

That he wanted to have stayed forgotten.

But there was a certain kind of forgetting,

Familiar forgetting he wanted to remember.

 

Then there were all the awful moments,

That he wished had never happened.

Along with all the beautiful moments,

That he knew truly did happen.

 

Remembering forgotten moments,

Will turn them into a treasure.

Forgetting certain remembered moments,

Can turn into feelings of displeasure.

 

The value of hindsight lies in giving,

The means to assess what we know.

How we have made best use in living,

Learn from mistakes in order to grow.

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Copyright © John Herlihy

Monday 12 October 2020


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Reviewed by Jms Bell
Reviewed on July 10, 2021
GOD BLESS THOSE THAT VALUE AND MAKE USE OF THE THINGS THEY'VE LEARNED FROM HINDSIGHT...PITY ON THOSE WHO DON'T. FINE WORK, ENJOYED. LOVE, BLESSINGS AND FAITH...HIS+INSPIRATIONS

Reviewed by Diana Wiles
Reviewed on June 11, 2021
The human dilemma of memory…what to remember, what to forget,
and the remembrance of what happened and what did not…
What the ‘reality’ of a situation was…and what imagined…
Often the interpretation of such is the key…are ‘imaginings’ any the less
relevant than ‘the truth’…?
In due course we are left with myriad memories, all touched with the wisdom of
age and time..to comfort or haunt…
Perhaps the choice is ours…in where we rest our head…

Reviewed by Ronald Hull
Reviewed on June 10, 2021
I just watched a PBS program on Remembering. Apparently we are continually modifying our memories. Often we are taking bad memories and turning them into good with age and a fine patina. But you are right about forgetting the bad. It may take a long time, but time allows us to forget very bad experiences.

While our memory of our mistakes fade, our wisdom grows from those mistakes.

When I asked my cousin about my great aunt's rape that occurred when she was in her late 80s, my cousin told me, "She never mentioned it again. Went on being her happy self, doing crocheting until she died at about 93." But I know that she left that apartment that she liked so much and moved into another one, apparently safer.

Ron


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