-- Taking Things for Granted --
By John Herlihy
We criticize others for taking things for granted.
Do we ever criticize ourselves for doing the same?
We expect flowers to bloom if their seeds planted.
When a different outcome ensues, who is to blame?
We act without thinking of the consequences of things,
Not expecting that our world may turn upside down.
We assume we are entitled to all the good life brings,
Once we swam happily, now making ready to drown.
Beware the person who says that ignorance is bliss,
Going thru life impervious to lure of the unknown.
Until we wake up one day longing for what we miss,
Taking for granted only those things already known.
We know not the value of water till the well runs dry.
With age-old truths abandoned, upon what do we rely.
We live in an era when we can take nothing for granted.
Lies, falsehoods, and deceit, these the seeds now planted.
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Copyright ©John Herlihy
Wednesday 23 August 2023
Some of my friends took me for granted that I would have the money to help them out when in need, which I didn't mind at all because helping others in need made me happy. I don't consider myself a perfect person, but I am always trying to better myself and be a better friend.
The problem is that we should not be too calculated on everyone and everything. If you are a calculative person, you would dig out others' bad points first before you see their good points. For me, I would rather see another person's good points first before I even take note of his/her bad points. Holding grudges against someone is not my cup of tea, I would rather forgive and forget, and move forward myself.
Life is too short, we should never think ill of another person when we go to bed, for you would never know if you would wake up the following morning; or if you wake up the following morning that person would still be alive for your grudges. I would rather go with peace in my heart whenever and whichever happens.
That's just my point of view.
Sandie