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Memories, someone asked?
Here’s one. Let me pull it out from the past,
Let me set it next to the grandfather clock in the parlor,
That used to count out time in chimes by the hour.
Mother is sitting in the corner armchair,
As if she had all the time in the world to spare.
Her silver hair tucked neatly into a bun,
Furiously at work on her knitting, homespun.
A faint smile extending the line of her lips,
A light like twilight falling where she sits.
She counts meticulously the stitches under her breath.
She knitted complicated patterns until her death.
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My, the wonder and the mystery of her craft;
She put light into every stitch drawn from an inner shaft,
With those bone-white fingers fragile as a matchstick,
Pouring her heart and soul into the work stitch by stitch,
Creating colorful designs that she fused into the pattern,
Imitating a discipline that lined her life with satin.
As the clicking of the needles sings,
Thousands upon thousands of stitches she brings,
Turning the yarn into sweaters and scarves,
Once she knitted woolen socks to warm my calves,
Colorful, fuzzy and full of strands,
All made into something magical by her loving hands.
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With kind patience, knitting afghans became her specialty,
Making one after the other until her final frailty.
Every child and grandchild cried out to have one,
Until I finally had my own afghan by her loving hands spun,
Made of colored strips of browns and orange and yellows,
The autumnal colors seemed to be enflamed by an invisible bellows.
She stitched those various colors one by one,
Hands moving swiftly as she smiled faintly under the winter sun.
She seemed to be writing a melody into the strings of the yarn,
To imprint on the work of a lifetime the majesty of a sacred cairn.
She was a good woman in her time, better than most,
The twilight still falls on her face, pure white, like a ghost.
Not only is the memory unusually identifiable to those of us with some years behind us, but for the younger readers, you've provided a glimpse into much of what has disappeared as consciousness and attention to the inordinate details of life's abundance of small details, usually at the ready, always beckoning us to pause a moment and allow some wisdom of image and a the personal lexicon of expression we all acquire at some time in our short lives. The sad part is that today, many rush past the moments that count, such as what you've shared with us today, and grasp the tenuous symbols of "success" and "material achievement" for fear of living without purpose. Obviously, your choice of experience shared here was a result of clarity and wisdom. Again, many thanks for sharing.
What a wonderful memory of a skilled and loving mother who knitted her way into yours and others hearts with her steadfast love.
While my mother could knit, she rarely did. My aunt, on the other hand, was a master at crocheting. In 1976 she crocheted many 13 star flags. I was fortunate to be able to purchase one for her generous price: $13. She said it took her a week to make one.
Ron
Reviewed by Syed Rashid Husain (Reader)
Reviewed on January 11, 2016
Beautiful, John. Thsi made me remember of my dad, writing his columns on his heavy, metal, typewriter - of the gone bye days.
Let this coming of age story of a boy named Bean take you back to a simple time. Set in a small southern town in the 1960's, encircled by a river and gleaming white cotton fields.
The familiar lament of dual-career parents raising children is, "I just can't do it all." The Libra Solution provides an alternative - a more satisfying and sustainable work and life approach - to the overwrought modern day norm.
lovely read
While my mother could knit, she rarely did. My aunt, on the other hand, was a master at crocheting. In 1976 she crocheted many 13 star flags. I was fortunate to be able to purchase one for her generous price: $13. She said it took her a week to make one.
Ron
May Allah bless them all. Take care!
Wassalam
Rashid