Beautiful expression of what friendship is truly all about. Your friend has lifes richest blessings with a friend such as you. Heartfelt and revealing, but as always within the lines of your poetry, your soft sensitive and caring nature is always visible.
Dear Jude,
This poem is so revealing and exposes a depth of feeling in you that is rarely seen. What special empathy allows you to feel and then to express those feelings in such a sensitive and caring fashion? I am, as always, in awe...and a little envious of the friend. lol
Love Chanti
These words touched me. I feel refreshed by the obvious regard and tenderness in them. I hope they hear and feel these words and understand that you do wish them the best in life. Wonderful. ;) Silver
Sometimes, Robert, being a true friend means just accepting that other person for whom they are and understanding that we cannot change the ground that they have already walked upon and the way that it creates their reality today. Love them for those things in them that you find to be amazing and overlook the rest. That is what friends do. No one is perfect and no one is exactly like us and just because we believe our path to be the correct one does not in any way mean that theirs is not also a correct one. Friendships require roots that rival those of the mighty oak, love that is as ever constant as the green of a pine tree and the flexibility of a willow, if they are going to survive. Sometimes we are mistaken as to what another person’s position is supposed to be in our life and in being mistaken we tend to try to mold them into who we think they should be instead of allowing them to grow in their own ways. Accepting and loving, that which is different, stirs a deep fear in all of us since it challenges all that we believe to be true and the very foundations of our own lives. If we don't accept others as the persons they are then our friendship becomes invalidating of the other individual and not nurturing, as friendships should be. This is a wonderful heart rendering write, Robert, one we can all both relate to and learn from.
Take care,
Sherry
Reviewed by Kate Clifford (Reader)
Reviewed on March 6, 2005
Wonderful hearttouching message that I am sure will be felt deeply. You have a wonderful way with words. A person would be lucky to be your friend. Wonderful write.
You are a lovely man. What I see reflected in life and in our work as poets is that we get lost sometimes wanting someone else to be the missing link in our lives when the missing link is us or God or to fill a hole that only we or God can fill in our lives. Even when we are quite spiritual and intellectually evolved, we may fall into this trap and waste time and energy searching for loves that will never come because they don't exist. For those of us who are mistaken to be the long lost love or the best friend who will solve all for the one who is temporarily lost, well, we can only love that person or befriend him/her to the depth that our passion is intended toward the individual at the moment we meet them on our path and to the level of our capability. The person and God must do the rest. And that's that. Oh, why tell you anything, Shaman. ;-) You're not all knowing, but you do friend well.
Such sensitivity, grace, empathy and compassion. What a selfless friendship you offer - and yet, within this feeling write, there may be something of the reflection of the voice's own longing within it. So many facets of a crystal heart displayed here: ones that reach out with an offer of love to be as much accepted as drawn on. I sense a kind of symbiosis here... the more we know of others we really care about - whether we are truly close to them or not - the more or own heart intentions and needs are revealed and exposed. But, to see the person that the "reflection" truly highlights, and to encourage that person to come into the fullness of that projected existance, then that is mentoring indeed. And: "monster"!!! You?! Could anyone presume to think so?! Assuming the "I", of course, is truly a personal voice... Thank you... you have given me inspiration for a short story I have to write for college tomorrow... LOL Kate xx
You are a caring friend and your concern shows in this tender write...people in the thick of their own lives sometimes lack the objectivity to see it, and themselves, clearly. This is when a true friend steps in...
True message from one friend to another offering the kind of explnation only a hurt feeling communication must have arisen from. Beautiful but not condescending write.
Reviewed by Joseph* OneLight*® (Reader)
Reviewed on March 6, 2005
Reads like a sincere and heartfelt note
written for someone whom you care about deeply.
A reflection of genuine friendship is always a living being, in need of its own living reflection. A very beautiful message, in which being genuine doesn't stop from being gentle.
Love&Light*
Alexandra*
Using Calgary as a backdrop the author satirizes the self-serving nature of the public as it continues to fatten itself, not only physically, but egotistically as well.
Beautiful poem
Beautiful expression of what friendship is truly all about. Your friend has lifes richest blessings with a friend such as you. Heartfelt and revealing, but as always within the lines of your poetry, your soft sensitive and caring nature is always visible.
Exceptional write Jude ;)
warm hugs
Elga
This poem is so revealing and exposes a depth of feeling in you that is rarely seen. What special empathy allows you to feel and then to express those feelings in such a sensitive and caring fashion? I am, as always, in awe...and a little envious of the friend. lol
Love Chanti
Good old friendship, the greatest ship of all time.
Take care
sounds like the essence of a true friend
TRASK
Nothing like great friends,
but I don't need to know every
detail about those friends of mine...
Take care,
Sherry
true friendship to the T.
Sandie May Angel a.k.a. Sandie Angel :o)
Best wishes always
from
your fan
Kay.
William ....Peace
Love Tinka
Thank you for sharing these special words.
John
written for someone whom you care about deeply.
Blessings,
Joseph
Love&Light*
Alexandra*