This is a prose poem to my partner acknowledging the holistic connection we share.
My love, we experience our love as a smooth, beautiful simplicity because we appreciate and accommodate the complexities of each other and of ourselves. Our love is enveloped in the security that comes from having been to the core of ourselves, of having both of us met with death unveiled and having stepped beyond evaporating illusions to reach the place where the spiritual is the physical is the intellectual is the emotional is one, where we are one another with our world, where perceptions are real, the invisible solid. We connect at a place where connection is not so much understanding as incorporation, where when we embrace the mystery of ourselves we embrace our real and unfathomable bond with one another. You are as familiar and mysterious to me as I am to myself, and as connected. My desire to live life with you is one with my will to live. My love for you is my commitment to myself to live my best life possible. I am to you as you are to me as we are to our world married.
copyright 2012, Philip D. Luing
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