If I could make you well baby girl
I would take my heart from my chest
And hand it to you on a silver platter
If I could guarantee that the rest of your life
Would be what it should be
I would give up the rest of mine
To make it happen
If only….
But what I won’t do anymore
No matter how bad it hurts to say this
Is to enable your behavior
By not controlling mine
I will no longer give you money
Because I want you to eat
When I know
It goes for drugs instead
I will no longer make excuses
For the things you do
And the things I failed to do
Hurting you
While trying to salve my own guilt
Better we do this now
No matter how bad it hurts
Cause I can’t keep living this way
Dying slowly
While you kill yourself
Every day
Both of us saying I’m sorry
But not changing a damned thing
Its time
For that tough love I keep hearing about
And the tough part
Will be as much for me
As it will for you
Baby girl
Grow up
your heart must ache with such a decision, but surely it is the right one. I love that you don't shy away from writing about the hard parts of life, Sue. take care and be strong, Dawn
It takes courage to love your children with tough love. But sometimes, it is needed...painful to read, but empowering at the same time...may this be the jump start to a better future, for both of you. You are in my prayers, you and your baby girl.
This is a sad poignant write knowing where it is coming from. There is nothing harder on the heart strings then to have to say no to our children even when it is foe their own good. Be brave Sue I know you are struggling.
No matter how old they are, we, the mothers, still care about them. They will always be our "Baby Girl". Hope things will turn out for the better between your baby girl and you.
A heartful of parental love in this one you write. Very touching indeed!
Sandie May Angel a.k.a. Sandie Angel :o)
Reviewed by June Thompson (Reader)
Reviewed on October 17, 2005
thanks for posting this... my brother needs to read this
I hurt for you Sue, but you're doing the only thing that hopefully will help!Blessings to you! Superb write!
Eileen
Reviewed by Richard Christopher Suarez (Reader)
Reviewed on October 17, 2005
Sue, You have written something I know a little about!]
Besides the fact that you have written this like a master;
You point is well understood and it's the only position a loved one
can take. It's incidious and there drags you right in ,...it's not her fault ! IT'S THE DISEASE! That is why I am backing you up!
I know people who have lost their loved one's for notloving tough enough!!!!!
be blessed ! y
That's right. Cut the umbilical cord and sit down to a nice meal. I too have had friends and relatives dine on poison ... cut their lines across the glass-topped kitchen table and laughed at their razor-blade and powder lifestyle thinking it is us who have the problem. Take a look at my tarot card The Navel, Sue. And then cut it loose. Blessed Be.
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The Commander and the Chief take on the rogue Deep State: the Gunfight at the UK Corral, missing Redcoats in the Nevada Triangle, and nuclear blackmail!
It takes courage to love your children with tough love. But sometimes, it is needed...painful to read, but empowering at the same time...may this be the jump start to a better future, for both of you. You are in my prayers, you and your baby girl.
(((((HUGS))))) and love, Karla.
It is hard to be a mother for sure!!
Love Tinka
Regis
Reindeer
good poem.
TX
Felix
A heartful of parental love in this one you write. Very touching indeed!
Sandie May Angel a.k.a. Sandie Angel :o)
Eileen
Besides the fact that you have written this like a master;
You point is well understood and it's the only position a loved one
can take. It's incidious and there drags you right in ,...it's not her fault ! IT'S THE DISEASE! That is why I am backing you up!
I know people who have lost their loved one's for notloving tough enough!!!!!
be blessed ! y
Sage