Don't settle, dear Tinka...you have only one life and it's too short as it is. reach for the stars and for what it is you know you want...believe ...because your wildest dreams are out there and sometimes...sigh...they do come true.
Love, Taylor

My prayers go out to you Tink that you don't get dragged into his pit. Whatever his problem, let him keep it and you be who God made you to be!
Peace,Grace,Love,
Sharon

truly a nice poetic rant, Tinks, goes this way when love stinks

Oh, my. Time to move on.

Ron

enjoyed the read

Amen, Sis...................now, REALLY GO!
Remember, I have been there, and done that, too.

Don't forget, when Jesus saw the man at the pool of Bethesda, what He asked him...

"When Jesus saw him lying there, and knew that he had been in that condition for a long time, He asked him, "Do you WANT to be made well?"

My heart breaks for you..
Love&Prayers, Rhonda

Goodbye is often a "good" bye. You will recognize him in others and split -- painful read. R

I wish you love, peace, healing and better times, TinkaSweets.

Regis (Your friend from BC, Canada)

I ache for you sis! I also wish a solution could be found!
I wish you better days in the future!

Love,
Eileen

Tinka~ You have brought me back to my past here, and I truly know how you feel...and it hurts, it hurts deeper when its the ones we chose, the one who is suppose to know what it takes, that little flower, or just a little card, ANYTHING...to keep us hanging on to the worth of you choosing HIM! and vice versa...I had seven children when I made my decision to go, and I went to a class that was offered prior to making my decision, it was called, "Fresh Start." For six weeks I took this class at our local community college and I sat among women, much older than I that had been subjected to alot worse, alot more heartache, even more years than I...but when I looked deeper, I saw, a life...MY LIFE, being in this cocoon of nothingness and I couldn't stand it for another day and so I left. It was the HARDEST thing I did, and it had its reprocussions on my children, but looking back and knowing I HAD TO, for my betterment, and knowing God wants us to be happy and perform our purpose he gives us life for...I have no regrets. Not one!
I send my prayers to you dear Tinka~ You will know! You will soar! Together as a couple who needs help and realizing its severity or away...You will know by asking HIM!
Love and Peace~
Kimmy~

The blokes a bloody nutter...

I'm sorry to feel your suffering, you have choices in how you wish to experience your life

Had an old love just like that! Wasn't worth the heart ache.
Love,
Susan

You can be my Valentine
any day My dear friend
It's just an expression of of love
not only for lovers but even for a friends

Love & Peace
William

This one tugs and pulls at my heart dear friend...
Blessings,
Joyce Bowling

You have to decide someday Tinka....
x0 x0 x0 x0 x0 x0

This breaks my heart!

Tinka,I can relate to this as most of us reading your message,
Life is to short to not be loved and loved in a special wayWe are all deserving..Do what you need to do to be happy my friend..
Praying for you..Sad situation...
God Bless,

Michael

Sounds like you know just what to do

Bless you, Darlin. This surely IS hell, but other forms exist... like being loved but NOT being loved, if you get my drift - at least, in the ways that you need to affirm that which is YOU. And THAT is maybe just as hard. I weep with you that you maybe feel tied to stone... but when stones also have feelings whose expression is dull, deadly and impossible, then that too is painful. Only YOU can pull the plug. No-one can say you haven't tried your darndest to hold things together. But in the end, you have to make a move JUST to ensure self-preservation and personal integrity. On the other hand, Valentine's Day IS just a load of emotional hype, isn't it?? A commercial exericise. Like Christmas, we try not to attach too much significance to the "being happy about it"-thing, but somehow that just makes things worse when personal dynamics are such that you can't HELP but notice the deficiencies. You're strong, Tinks. Trust yourself. You WILL do the absolute best thing and not live to regret it. New Awakening is absolutely right. Many of us women only come into that at certain times in our lives. Especially those of us with servant hearts. But servant is different to serVILE, init?? One is willing, the other not... and I have blabbed on waay too much, but I feel for you, Babes. You got lots of life ahead of you, Tinka... Take care. LOL K xx

Tinks ...

Sometimes it's better to make the tough decisions and just move on. The reality of not being loved is a difficult place to be, a real hell of sorts. Peace to you Sissy. Love from big bro!

Light and Wisdom ...

A tragedy or a new awakening of the importance of self. Pure beauty recognizes true love. Great write.

No longer can this go on
Everyday dressed in pure hell

Very sad to say, Tinky, but only we ourselves can make the decision to get out of hell, if we want to badly enough.

Amen, Tinka! Well said, sweet poet lady.
Love,
CJ

Powerful write Tinky-Doll.