But then... ...I've also been told that I never "grew up."
Who Cares?
I’ve been told No one cares for someone Who sheds tears too easily No one wants to be with someone Who has an affinity For black and blue Who has a penchant For the gloaming of the day For rain songs And the lamenting wail Of the wandering winter wind No one cares Not even you With your heart full of hollow promises And superficial love as whimsy As gossamer on a summer breeze No one cares So I’ve been told
Sometimes I wonder that too, but when I get in touch with friends and family the outlook changes. we can all make it a better world by being friendly and giving smiles away!
I MUST AGREE WITH WHOEVER TOLD YOU THIS REGIS BECAUSE I DO BELIEVE THAT (TO THE WORLD'S GREAT BENEFIT) THERE IS A CERTAIN PART OF POETS THAT DO NOT 'GROW UP'...THUS...THE GIFT WITHIN US IS ABLE TO 'SPEAK' TO THE HEARTS OF THE YOUNG AND THE OLD...WHICHEVER THE 'READER' WANTS, OR HAPPENS, TO BE. POETS ARE EMOTIONAL AND TENDER PEOPLE BECAUSE GOD MADE THEM THAT WAY...AND THERE IS SOMEONE THAT CARES WHEN NO ONE ELSE DOES REGIS, AND I KNOW, YOU KNOW...WHO THAT SOMEONE IS. THANKS FOR SHARING, GOD BLESS YOU AND BLESSINGS. LOVE, JOYCE * HIS INSPIRATIONS
"Who Cares" Regis honestly I believe there is something so special about a man who can truly express himself and also who stays in tune with the innermost deepness of masculinity. Not waivering with the fact of showing one's own vulnerabilities.
Always blessings and good wishes to you,
~Gwendolyn
Regis,
As you know I am very emotional woman with passions of my heart. As for me...my passions are not secluded to one area of emotions or desires.
In my passions of my sorrow like anyone's does hurt & tears fall.
For me it is in a means of releasing the grief, or frustration...it is all good & renewing for acceptance of a lesson towards wisdom & a cherished blessing of our journey to further acceptance.
I Care & I Love You My Friend.
Don't shy away from someone so sensitive, some day you may need them to cry for you...this is very thought provoking and full of truth. Very well done, Regis.
Leann
People are often scared at open display of emotion..epecially what they determine as 'gloomy' emotion..I just LOVE songs about the rain..Rainy Night In Georgia, Rhythm Of The Rain...I was described as 'strange'...I don't care..and I cry and fill up at the drop of a hat! It's Fear. I like the way you raise these issues in your work...and I enjoy the way you put the words together! Best wishes. Diana.
People who "wear their hearts on their sleeve" are often the most difficult to get to know but the most worthy to be known - and often the world shakes its head and passes them by, like they also do many poetic and muical souls!
PS: great topics you plumb with your "short line"!
I guess we all care about something. It may not be healthy, but it's a start.
Tony
Reviewed by S H (Reader)
Reviewed on February 6, 2008
First Regis, I hate it when people comment on you instead of the poem and we have been friends for a long time- you know that, so I won't. I think the poem is very beautiful and sad. It is simple and should be-good work!
First, Reg...don't believe everything your told; it's just one person's opinion. Many people care, and their called true friends or a love.
Second...some people say foolish things in a moment of anger; things that oft' cannot be "taken-back". Forget those words.
Love this meaningful and heartfelt ('tho sad) poem. You have a warm heart that inspires all your poetry and writings...just keep 'em coming to us.
{{{hugs}}} Micke
Reviewed by Pamela garner (Reader)
Reviewed on February 4, 2008
A deep and oh so true write. Peace and love. Pamela
No one cares huh, I guessthe love I feel isn't true (NOT)
cuz, I cry on the drop of dime! commercials and other shows bring tears as easily as I write Reg.
We have it badddddddd.. and that is goooooood!
Love your heart and this poem!
I know it's been awhile, so let's see What ElSe you have written! and expressed for our poetic ears!
and YES! SOMEONE Cares,the most important!!!
Warmest Blessings, Inner Light, LOVE and Warm Hugs, Warrior Purple Lady Sweet Sheooxooo
STay Positive!
This poem is written with an easy eloquence! to the ears and heart!
Reviewed by Russ Okamura (Reader)
Reviewed on February 2, 2008
Nicely delivered. Your poetry is very powerful and profound and your masterful use of words takes this poem to depths unknown. Truly a wonderful poem.
You have perfectly captured that sense of alienation felt by the sensitive soul chafing at life in the "real world". A bittersweet, slightly painful read.
Ah Regis, how deeply this touched my heart. You express this sad feeling so very well. excellently written.
Reindeer
Reviewed by Lovina Kelly (Reader)
Reviewed on January 29, 2008
Many ways you could expand on this poem. It is sad that there is domestic violence in the world, that so many women/men get caught up in this never ending cycle. What was your inspiration behind "Who cares?"
This is so sad. To live in a great world of people and feel no one cares is equivalent to the bottom falling out of one's life. Yet, we must always remember that loving oneself is not selfish, it is necessary so it serves as a teacher of love that we can send out to others. When we love ourselves, we can look within instead of without when we need to draw on needed strength.
And I have found that to be all too true too Reg. It is a sad day when no one cares about the plight of others, but expects others to care about them. When I lived in Wisconsin no one cared what Barbara had done or was about to do, least of all not her tears. But when I moved to Australia I found that others here do care, and that is a positive thing.
When someone is sad, we should at least ask if anything is wrong. If they say no, then offer a good day to them, and go. But we should at least ask.
May ther Lord Jesus bless you, and those whom you love, and be with you always, and at your side constantly. With much love in my heart, joy to the world, peace on earth, & ((((((((((MANY WONDERFUL SISTERLY HUGGGGSSSS)))))))))), your little sister, Barbie
hello Regis, they say believe all of what we see and none of what we hear. There are those who care and those who don't give a dam. I like to be around loving caring people as opposed to cold hearted none caring. Your poem does make one think
Lovely, effective, yet simple, direct... I like this.
And I can see that many fellow authors like this too.
Maybe because poetic souls feel this way - I can certainly say I do.
When the surface is too choppy, restless, we reach for the depths and try to bring out the beauty that is there. We cannot be satisfied by looking at the surface... not all the time!
You have such an insightful, well-done poem here, Regis. I've noticed the same thing many times, but then also noticed those people who sometimes subtly help without great show. I like lines like "And suuperficial love as whimsy As gossamer on a summer breeze. Great thoughts, great writing. My compliments to the girl in the photo, very expressive...Jerry
We owe each other a little care Reg, even those who cry easily. But the world gets more selfish every day and there is more pressure to ask "what's in it for me" before offdering a little of ourselves.
In many instances we are our own worst enemy, we feel sad when we should have been happy. We have to be happy within ourselves first in order to receive happiness from others.
. . . so I've been told as well on occasion too my friend. Who cares? But you know, there are times when many of us have been our own worst enemy, and when we choose to stop crying, others will figure out that we've decided to change the course of our lives, and start claiming. As for me, God's Son cares. There is a wonderful youtube on this that made a grown man cry, based on his posting, check it out:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Qh5Fa6vZuFo
much love to you in this, and many blessin's,
cynth'ya
There are some who are so careless with other people's hearts that tear so easily. There are those who mend them then rip them apart. Finally, we are led to believe there are those who really do care and for this reason we continue to hope. Yes i do believe there are people that do care in this world. But sometimes it's hard to differentiate truth from lies.
Reviewed by Riley Burton (Reader)
Reviewed on January 14, 2008
Wow, your poetry is very good.
Sad and heartfelt
I had the same thought
does one really care?
Good choice of words
Regs when someone speaks to me then I believe they need an ear to listen to them although I may not make things right for them but I do care, and if I turn to someone I hope that they do but it doesn't always work that way, sorry. Thank you for sharing.
Newfie Hugs, Rose
I have to say that I agree with Fee here, it's a strange phenomena of human nature to allow ourselves to rest our sorrows on the wrong shoulders or let the wrong ears hear our lamenting. All human beings have the right to lament, this is something that was created within us, or the tear ducts were a big mistake LOL.
Peeps can have their opinions and say what they like, if what they hear isnt something they can deal with, or want to deal with. Tis best to shrug off such fickle responses and seek the counsel of those who have been through the similar situations, therefore are equipped to give a reasonable empathetic response. Sympathy in this life is useless, empathy is what is needed when suffering hits and hits hard, and unless another has walked a mile in the same moccasins,he dont know squat bout you're feeling or needs.
This is something that lifeline counsellors the world over are taught, but they dont get to that position to start with, unless they have a fairly good base knowledge and life with variants to suit.
Pick your shoulders wisely, that is what I tell myself, even though I dont always, but pass it on I will anyway LOL
Peace be with you dear friend,
God bless
Ch'erie
So many times, I have heard a young person cry these same tears...When my children went through emotional breakdowns such as this...we would cry and laugh at the same time, as I would sing...
"Noboddddy loooooves meeeee, Everyboddddddy haaaaates meeeee, I might as well eat a worm!", and they couldn't help but laugh! :)
I do hope the world will always keep our angels close by when we need them most...
So enjoyed...your words speak volume!
Love and Peace~
Kimmy~
I personally think that many people
Have days where we have felt this way
I know I have many, and it’s very sad
To feel that no one cares
Tears that is a way to released and cleansed
Your soul
I think many of us can relate to this poem!
This poem is filled with deep emotions
And sadness a very powerful heartfelt write
You’re a brilliant poet my friend!!
Peace Love and Hugssss…..Morning Star
PS We All care we are your friends!!!!
Excellent write Reg, but i disagree people care, it's just finding the right ones that's the hard thing to do.
Thanks for sharing
Steve
Reviewed by Sanja Dayslink (Reader)
Reviewed on January 11, 2008
I think there are days when everyone, or almost everyone has had a day that they have felt this way. I know that I have - then someone out of the blue does something that restores your thoughts in mankind. I much enjoyed this write. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Many don't,but, then again a few does, and they are the one that counts when all the chips are down, you can bet your life in that pot, because a true someone at hand will lead you through.
Georg
...those who know no tears...must live in a house for dry eyes. Fortunately tears are the waters of mankinds soul...to keep the lotus flower within us alive...tears of sacredness.
your pen cares for you beautifully...
John
I believe as writers...we feel more deeply than half the planet. Should an icy-cold heart tell you that you're too emotional, walk away...because they are not the sort who can understand you. This poem captures how society functions as a whole. We say we'll be friends but we never call. We say we care but when we're needed, we're mysteriously absent. If we can find one or two genuine friends throughout our lives...we are truly lucky. I would rather have one genuine friend my whole life than a phonebook full of "superficial" ones! You have moved each reader of this piece - so much so that they offer their own caring thoughts. A mark of true talent! Love and hugs:)
Sheila
Even in those dark times when one might believe that no one cares, there is always someone who truly does. While I do believe that we are responsible for securing our own destiny, I think that there are many who believe that they are incapable of doing so. Thought provoking offering, Regis.
Take care,
Sherry
This poem fills my heart with sadness. When someone thinks that no one cares - I just want to reach out, give them a hug, and let them know that I care. I was reminded of what my Mom would say as we were growing up - God gave us tears and laughter, and both are necessary.
You raise interesting concepts of what is acceptable in a sociey, yet given time all changes again. One who listens can hear and help the painful cries of another......
While there are some people out there who enjoy pain, for the most part, someone who is black and blue needs help. More than the average person can offer. ~ Sara
It is a hollow feeling to think that no one cares,, but when one writes of this,, it shows that "you" are one to fill a hole,,,
Reg,,, Enjoyed,, Love, Christine
Perfectly expressed, and accented by the stirring picture.
This is an outstanding work, Regis. Touches the heart and arouses compassion and maybe even understanding.
And hey, we all care for YOU.
I care. Your poetry has enlightened and delighted me. And I don't want it to stop. Great write. Liz
Reviewed by Rafika Anderson (Reader)
Reviewed on January 10, 2008
Well, don't believe everything you hear. Plenty of people care.
Meanwhile, this is a touching, colorful piece with deeply moving imagery and sensations. Your word choices were visually and emotionally stimulating and the overall flow and tone were hypnotic and lulling to the mind. Nice work, Regis, awakening a pensive mood in the reader.
Wonderful write, Regis. And the pic is extremely moving. Gracious expression of how I think all of us feel sometimes, when the world seems to want to pass us by, no matter how hurt we may be. And yet, when we stop and dry the tears a moment, we usually see the folks who are standing there with compassion in their eyes...
May you know all the wonderous magic of life,
Jim
Your poem is rather poignant of our own lives as well.
It can be any one of us you talk about. I like the picture.
It kinda says how I have been feeling the past few months.
Hope you are doing well, Regis.
Becca (BB) Lang
I understand this so very well, Regis. I find, for someone who I have always thought to be sunny in temperament (me, I'm talking about!), all I seem able to write is dark or humour - very seldom anything of real joy. Strange, that. But, hey ho... Better express reality in the beauty of blues and greys, rather than daub crimson kisses over everything... but, hang on a minute! I do both!?! But perhaps it just goes to show that I DO care... too much, probably. Like you. Your heart and my sleeve go well together, don't you think? Seems it's definitely where we wear them... Provocative and searing writing, Darlin. Tellin it like it is. Hope you're surviving your nordic big freeze up there... Love, Kate xx
"Who Cares?" is a dark and hauntingly poetic piece. Wonderful!
Peace,
Dan
Reviewed by LadyJtalks LadyJzTalkZone (Reader)
Reviewed on January 10, 2008
I believe that goes true for those who display only the drama each day. For real tears and real sorrow goes out to the human hearts. Good write. Very thought provoking. Lady J
A powerful piece Reg. I agree with Felix. Some folks give lip service to empathy, but when it comes down to who is really there when things go wrong, it's often a short list. Great poem my friend. Love and peace, Michelle
Dear Regis, it is a great poem but I do care for every human being including you. Sortez du trou ou vous vous trouvez a l'instant vous verrez plus de lumiere on va vers le printemps.
Love emile
Deeply moving write that touches on this side of depression with the pain of love that seems in doubt... people do care but often we approach the wrong ones for empathy.
Actually, tho I'm not claiming to be the norm, tears draw me. A man whom I had nearly lost all affection for shed tears recently. It affected me greatly for, only then, did I know he had a heart after all.
I love this poem but it makes me wish weeping were allowed. It isn't welcome, sharing one's emotions, most of the time in most places. Wish your observations were not as vivid as they are.
Beautifully imaged poem with beauty of words that belie the heartache of fact over fiction,and seeing things differently!
Very touching poem, Reg! Thanks for sharing!
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"Who Cares" Regis honestly I believe there is something so special about a man who can truly express himself and also who stays in tune with the innermost deepness of masculinity. Not waivering with the fact of showing one's own vulnerabilities.
Always blessings and good wishes to you,
~Gwendolyn
As you know I am very emotional woman with passions of my heart. As for me...my passions are not secluded to one area of emotions or desires.
In my passions of my sorrow like anyone's does hurt & tears fall.
For me it is in a means of releasing the grief, or frustration...it is all good & renewing for acceptance of a lesson towards wisdom & a cherished blessing of our journey to further acceptance.
I Care & I Love You My Friend.
EMBRACED~Embrasse'
Vickie
Leann
PS: great topics you plumb with your "short line"!
Tony
Second...some people say foolish things in a moment of anger; things that oft' cannot be "taken-back". Forget those words.
Love this meaningful and heartfelt ('tho sad) poem. You have a warm heart that inspires all your poetry and writings...just keep 'em coming to us.
{{{hugs}}} Micke
cuz, I cry on the drop of dime! commercials and other shows bring tears as easily as I write Reg.
We have it badddddddd.. and that is goooooood!
Love your heart and this poem!
I know it's been awhile, so let's see What ElSe you have written! and expressed for our poetic ears!
and YES! SOMEONE Cares,the most important!!!
Warmest Blessings, Inner Light, LOVE and Warm Hugs, Warrior Purple Lady Sweet Sheooxooo
STay Positive!
This poem is written with an easy eloquence! to the ears and heart!
Reindeer
You have penned a heart touching poem about a subject that many won't touch.
Who Cares? I care.
~hugs & kisses~
Karen
Many care*`~
When someone is sad, we should at least ask if anything is wrong. If they say no, then offer a good day to them, and go. But we should at least ask.
May ther Lord Jesus bless you, and those whom you love, and be with you always, and at your side constantly. With much love in my heart, joy to the world, peace on earth, & ((((((((((MANY WONDERFUL SISTERLY HUGGGGSSSS)))))))))), your little sister, Barbie
Sometimes it is a very good idea to let go of people who don't 'get us'...if at all possible.
love,
Gina
Cryssa
Thanks for stopping by my corner of the den and reviewing my poetry.
Beautifully expressed. Safi
And I can see that many fellow authors like this too.
Maybe because poetic souls feel this way - I can certainly say I do.
When the surface is too choppy, restless, we reach for the depths and try to bring out the beauty that is there. We cannot be satisfied by looking at the surface... not all the time!
Axilea
Fine poem
Love your write. Take care, Regis!!!!!
Love,
Sandie Angel :o)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Qh5Fa6vZuFo
much love to you in this, and many blessin's,
cynth'ya
Sad and heartfelt
I had the same thought
does one really care?
Good choice of words
Riley B
<3 Pea <3
Peace and Blessings,
Carolyn
(PS: Thank you for reading mine.
I'm Canadian, btw, just like you.
Seems my passion might have fooled you ;)
Helga
Newfie Hugs, Rose
Be well,
Sheri
Peeps can have their opinions and say what they like, if what they hear isnt something they can deal with, or want to deal with. Tis best to shrug off such fickle responses and seek the counsel of those who have been through the similar situations, therefore are equipped to give a reasonable empathetic response. Sympathy in this life is useless, empathy is what is needed when suffering hits and hits hard, and unless another has walked a mile in the same moccasins,he dont know squat bout you're feeling or needs.
This is something that lifeline counsellors the world over are taught, but they dont get to that position to start with, unless they have a fairly good base knowledge and life with variants to suit.
Pick your shoulders wisely, that is what I tell myself, even though I dont always, but pass it on I will anyway LOL
Peace be with you dear friend,
God bless
Ch'erie
Best wishes
HH
if I may be s bluntly.... some poeple say they care - and some really give a damn!
Lovely write,
Becca~
I've seem so much of
Peace be with you
William
Ed
Myrna
Graceful, beautiful and multilayered.
Never stop bello, beating your loving heart!
Love, Suzie :-D
TRASK
"Noboddddy loooooves meeeee, Everyboddddddy haaaaates meeeee, I might as well eat a worm!", and they couldn't help but laugh! :)
I do hope the world will always keep our angels close by when we need them most...
So enjoyed...your words speak volume!
Love and Peace~
Kimmy~
Have days where we have felt this way
I know I have many, and it’s very sad
To feel that no one cares
Tears that is a way to released and cleansed
Your soul
I think many of us can relate to this poem!
This poem is filled with deep emotions
And sadness a very powerful heartfelt write
You’re a brilliant poet my friend!!
Peace Love and Hugssss…..Morning Star
PS We All care we are your friends!!!!
I think this was a very heartfelt poem. I love the simplicity of it as well as the depth of feeling you get across.
Larry
as a whole people care or
at least I hope so!
Thanks for sharing
Steve
Sanja xo
Georg
your pen cares for you beautifully...
John
I believe as writers...we feel more deeply than half the planet. Should an icy-cold heart tell you that you're too emotional, walk away...because they are not the sort who can understand you. This poem captures how society functions as a whole. We say we'll be friends but we never call. We say we care but when we're needed, we're mysteriously absent. If we can find one or two genuine friends throughout our lives...we are truly lucky. I would rather have one genuine friend my whole life than a phonebook full of "superficial" ones! You have moved each reader of this piece - so much so that they offer their own caring thoughts. A mark of true talent! Love and hugs:)
Sheila
Pierre
Take care,
Sherry
God bless you. Kathy
Be safe,
Karen
Reg,,, Enjoyed,, Love, Christine
Love the emotions here Reg.
Susan
Blessings,
Joyce B.
This is an outstanding work, Regis. Touches the heart and arouses compassion and maybe even understanding.
And hey, we all care for YOU.
Connie
Meanwhile, this is a touching, colorful piece with deeply moving imagery and sensations. Your word choices were visually and emotionally stimulating and the overall flow and tone were hypnotic and lulling to the mind. Nice work, Regis, awakening a pensive mood in the reader.
Be reassured that there's always someone out there that cares. Peace, Love and Blessings Always, Paul.
May you know all the wonderous magic of life,
Jim
It can be any one of us you talk about. I like the picture.
It kinda says how I have been feeling the past few months.
Hope you are doing well, Regis.
Becca (BB) Lang
Someone will care.
Ron
Yet the blessing IS your true FRIENDS = DO CARE.
Peace,
Dan
Love emile
(((UGHUGS))) and love, Karla.
(((HUGS))) et amour, ton ami dans Texas, Karen Lynn. :D
Paix a toi! :) (I think that's it! LOL)
Thanks for sharing...at least we know who our friends are!!
Love TinkaSweets!!
fee
I love this poem but it makes me wish weeping were allowed. It isn't welcome, sharing one's emotions, most of the time in most places. Wish your observations were not as vivid as they are.
Love,
Sandy
Very touching poem, Reg! Thanks for sharing!
Love,
ET