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Don't have the stomach for it 6/19/2008 4:06:05 AM
Well, I had to edit this blog. It was way too much of a downer, even for me (lol). It's difficult to "let it be," no matter how beautiful a song it may be. Much easier said than done, especially when we feel we've been wronged. However, while we hang on to the past, we create a situation where we hurt ourselves far more than we have been hurt by others.
And if the point is as petty as "I can't let them win," then the worst thing you can do is hang on and let it destroy your quality of life and depress your soul. When that happens, then you have given X what they wanted in the first place and without any effort! You gave yourself away like a sample in the supermarket!
I don't know about you, but I think I am have a little more value than a one ounce cup of the latest cereal and a fifty cent off coupon. Sometimes I just have to breathe, step back, and remind myself.
May you always realize your true value and never become someone else's freebie.