Blogs by Edie M. Batstone
Just Call Me Smiley!
7/11/2016 5:48:50 AM
Inspiration can come in many forms - for me, the touch of so many warm smiles over the years took on great importance - I wanted to be like those wonderful givers, for a special light shone in their eyes.
Just Call Me Smiley!
I'm writing my story - the story of my life - moment by moment with each breath and with every action that I take.
Day No. 24,646 (How scary is that!):
I just finished doing a session of Tai Chi - it is a very calming exercise, meditative and thought inspiring. A voice inside reminded me that one of our basic needs is that of creating something to pass along, of using the inspirations that we receive, to leave our mark, to build up this world in some way.
"Edie, it said, (how cheeky, using my first name!) What inspired you growing up - a smile perhaps?"
Well, now that you mention it - Yes, perhaps - As I call to mind some of the many little moments and sparks that I gathered like treasures and stored in my heart, I realize that they have become a part of me.
I remember being called 'smiley' when I was a young girl, and of feeling unsure of whether that was a good or bad thing to be - a sign of weakness or of strength? It seemed that I needed to have an important reason to smile, or it left me looking a little simple.
As I matured, that smiling thing became more and more of an asset. I realized that there are no invalid reasons for a true, warm smile, but many reasons to avoid a cruel sneer or a frown - Those sad faces pull our hearts into a frown as well, and it's very hard to lift our hearts and put it into our efforts if there is a big sad foot stepping on it. There is much bravery in a soul that finds the strength to lift that foot and smile forth from a heart that is struggling or in pain, yet in that small action, there is healing for the giver and receiver.
I know from my own life's experiences that there are no words that wield as much power to reach out to another, to convey understanding, as the gesture of a genuine smile, and a kind touch on the shoulder in a moment of sadness, difficulty or stress. Then again, a smile and a hug is even better, and a smile, a hug and a helping hand is the triple crown winner!
I wrote a little poem that I want to include in my fourth 'puddle' book that will give tribute to these three gifts: 'A smile, a hug and a helping hand'.
The ability of those gifts to spread out and gain wisdom, love, and new friends as they grow is a positive tool that I hope every child who picks them up will benefit from and use to build up his or her own world, their own life's story.
Now it's time to pull on my work gloves; This gardener's prayer: That we all dig into this garden called life, planting seeds of loving thoughts, watering them with a gentle rain of warm hugs, and using our helping hands to pull out the weeds of hate and ignorance; May our garden of smiles grow into strong actions to help in the healing of this precious world so much in need of hope-filled smiles - a bounty for all to share for so many good reasons!
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