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Blogs by E T Waldron
The Phony Victim 1/14/2005 8:27:52 PM
Some people never get over being
victims even when they aren't! The Victim
Sometimes in life people assume different traits
either because of something that happened in their
childhood, or later in school, a relationship, environment, many factors play a role. Perhaps what
causes it to happen is less important than how it is
dealt with once you know the problem.However,some
people never admit they have a problem.That is the
worst thing to deal with.
Take for instance someone who has taken on a habit
of being a victim. No matter what happens
no one else can be as harrassed or badly treated as
this person. They go from one mistreatment
to another. Never having a time of normal everyday happiness, because someone is always doing something to them.
Of course the thing is they are doing it all to themselves. They may have been abused by parents, a friend, a spouse, whomever. What happens is
these people find that the attention they get while
being a victim is very soothing as others show their concern etc. Much more so than what they get otherwise.
If they should happen to have a mate who mistreats
or ignores them the role of victim becomes even more attractive to them and they play it for all it's
worth. Even if they have to create their own situations. They become facile liars and so good at
it that they fool everyone into thinking they are
being persecuted, when it is all their own doing.
It is a regretful situation and I feel very sorry for
the person who has to do this repeatedly in
order to get attention. They evidently feel that normal attention received isn't enough, so they fabricate things to keep the lie active.
When this happens you can always tell by the way the person never stops talking about how badly they are being treated, and you begin to realize that this person never stops being mistreated.
Then you have to ask yourself who are all
these people that keep mistreating this person?
And you will never find out, because they are doing
it to themselves.
A very sad situation. God help them, because
evidently they won't go for the help they
need to get rid of the mania.
This was written for phony victims, not for those legitimate people who are true victims of others abuse!
etw~2005~en rapport
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