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That's What I Think 11/5/2011 7:28:53 AM
Today is a day of celebration and loss.
I am officially divorced. It only took 8 days. Seriously. It actually happened on November 1, 2011. But I didn't get the final papers til yesterday. (Friday November 4)
How does this feel? Not so much different except that I am free. My significant other is very happy. It sort of lifts the burden of living in the "eye" of others. I am at my own descretion of how I live.
Yes it feels good! Do I have saddeness. Only a little, for what my ex meant to me. He was a good husband in his own way and cared for me. Did we love each other completely? No we did not.
Realizing that was astounding to me. But once seeing the truth of it...I could say that yeah we probably would see the path of divorce. Not because of abuse or neglect, only because it had run it's course. Not being in love with a partner, doesn't work! The factor I have always been missing I have found. And it makes all the difference in the world.
I walked in my truth to the scrutiny of a lot people. I was given the "stink eye" and judged. But that did not keep me from going after what I beleive was my destiny. I have never been happier nor more content with anyone.
Follow your truth people...it is the only way to true happiness and joy!
