Blogs by Deborah K. Frontiera
Fighting CPS
7/9/2019 11:07:40 AM
July 9, 2019
The purpose of this blog has been to provide updates on some of the cases I reported in my book (Fighting CPS: Guilty Until Proven Innocent of Child Protective Services Charges ISBN 9-780-9800061-6-2) that had not been resolved when the book went to press, and to report other cases where CPS is not working up to par. I’d also like to hear about cases in which Child Protective Services did the right thing so those cases can serve as examples of what should be done. Occasionally, I will report helpful tips and web sites with advice on fighting CPS. To comment on this blog, or to tell your story, email Deborah Frontiera at frontiera.fightingcps.deborah.gmail.com
Found on the Internet By Darian Trotter
Friday, March 8th 2019
SAN ANTONIO - A local couple reunited with their children after a lengthy battle with Child Protective Services, is now sharing their story to help other parents get their children back.
Why child advocates say peer support places an important role.
"It was the worst night of our entire lives," Monique Gonzalez said.
Monique Gonzalez and Adrian Alvarado remember all too well the day they lost custody of their six children.
"We literally ran in and said look kids something really bad is about to happen but we promise you it's going to be okay," Gonzalez said.
Questionable marks on one of the children, caused hospital staffers to call Child Protective Services for suspicion of physical abuse.
"We both fell asleep crying," Gonzalez said. "We were made at each other, we were mad at the world, we just shut everything off."
The months ahead would take an emotional and financial toll.
Angry at the world, judged by friends and family, they began their uphill battle.
Things changed when they realized it was more important to understand what caused the problem and how to make sure it doesn't happen again.
"It's okay to be angry, it's okay to frustrated," Gonzalez said. "It's how you take that out and how you channel that energy."
It took eight months for the allegations of abuse to be reduced to neglectful supervision.
The family was reunited.
"It takes your attitude to turn around in order for your case to turn around," Gonzalez said.
For the past three years they've partnered with CPS and are working on a local and state level to help other parents see past anger to get their children back.
It's the kind of support Child Advocates San Antonio says is important.
"It can be a very emotional experience," said CASA President and CEO Marina Gonzales said. "And it's so important for that peer to peer connection that they can help each other."
Monique Gonzalez and Adrian Alvarado admit they wasted valuable time fighting their case with displaced anger, instead of targeted action.
"I think the biggest things that holds parents back from getting their children is anger," Gonzalez said.
The couple has formed a support group called Parents Informing Parents and they're looking for others to join them.
The group meets every first Thursday of every month at 6:30 p.m. At Casey Family Programs, 2840 Babcock Rd. For more information, dial (210) 337-3231.
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